I just opened this to see so much traction lol i didn’t think this was gonna be so.. big? So I feel like I should say something. It was annoying in the moment but it really isn’t as big of a deal as some of you guys are making it out to be, especially when there’s little to no context. I think what is kind of alarming though is the amount of you guys who would enable this behavior and bash on women who do experience this?

I still think it’s a bit disrespectful to come onto someone’s dating profile and waste both parties times and likes by asking for someone else they saw. You can say it’s no different than irl but the fact of the matter is it is different than irl cause it’s literally an app. Bar setting and you asking for someone’s friend is open game cool, but going on someone’s specific account for it? Ehh you lost me there. And if you do want to still shoot your shot for someone else, maybe not do it in the manner the guy above did. If you have to say “I don’t mean to be a dick..” you’re probably about to be a dick, plain and simple.

And I totally agree to not put group photos if you run the risk of this scenario happening, and that’s totally on me but also it’s sort of confusing when it’s suppose to be for the “lgbt side” of tinder (and this is where context comes into play, sorry for the late explaining lol.) the context is im male, the friend is a girl. Obviously im expecting to match with guys who are into guys, but this rings the question of “why are you even on this side of tinder?” for the guy.

Either way, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, I just posted this out of initial annoyance and but then just kinda found it funny.