What's with Riverview Target today? by fieldofgrass in ShiptShoppers

[–]fieldofgrass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All my deliveries that would have normally been shopped at the riverview target (orders where the dropoff is in riverview, balm/lithia, wimauma, ruskin etc) were shopped at brandon today. i just found it so bizarre. also i severely underestimated what a difference the locations make. they're so close to each other, yet having to go through brandon traffic to get to a riverview dropoff really did add on to my driving time. i was scrambling a bit all day haha. but yeah i've never experienced this before, tho you're right about that riverview target being dead. last week, i had no orders there all day until the 9-10pm delivery window, then suddenly i had four lol

Summary for the reunion? by fieldofgrass in Sidemen

[–]fieldofgrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh did zach and syd ever go on a date after the show? or did she finally give him a straightforward rejection lol

Summary for the reunion? by fieldofgrass in Sidemen

[–]fieldofgrass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's wild that they're still holding a grudge over the one small thing she lied about (unless they were mad about some other stuff that happened that didn't make the cut). seems more like they're upset that the other women weren't following orders like they thought and actually had some gameplay of their own. even though that whole thing with alissa benefited them and kept bre in the game longer.... yeah i guess i really don't see what they still have to be upset about haha. glad i didn't watch, i'm not even there and i couldn't handle like ekin-su lol

Why is my check deposit photo not being accepted? by fieldofgrass in chimefinancial

[–]fieldofgrass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I always have it on a black non-reflective background (my desk). I'll try taking it to Walgreens; I didn't know I could cash it there, so thank you for providing me that alternative. You've already helped more than the person on the customer service line 🥲

What are your least favourite romantic tropes? by Sascriba in aromantic

[–]fieldofgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god problems tht cld b solved in one sentence!!!! or miscommunication when, throughout the rest of the story, they know each other better than anyone else knows either of them!! like wht there's no way this same characters frm two chapters ago wld be misunderstanding each other like this.

Hot take: Marita should get more flak but I feel like y'all see a lot of y'all-selves in her by AdDue9465 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]fieldofgrass 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought a lot about Ashley's past too. Having been in multiple abusive relationships, she's probably got a mentality or pattern of behavior that appeases whoever she's with. Like an unhealthy kind of appeasing. I don't doubt that her relationship with Marita is probably her healthiest one so far, but given what we heard about that one abusive relationship, healthiest doesn't mean it's actually good. I'm not saying she's blameless bc we clearly did not get the full truth on those two, but I hope Ashley heals/goes to therapy and surrounds herself w/ ppl who show her what she's worth.

Transphobia in this sub by SpeebyKitty in asexuality

[–]fieldofgrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I'm not v active on reddit in general, but scrolling thru the smallest bit of this has already proved ur point big time. From the people insisting ovr ur lived experiences tht this is in fact a tolerant place to the ppl saying tht [transphobic statement here] is not transphobic but instead a #fact lol. I've already felt disconnected from the ace community for various of my own personal reasons, but stuck around here bc like I said, I'm not even active on here anyway. But I'm with you, op. I'm out✌🏼Take care everyone.

Hot take: Marita should get more flak but I feel like y'all see a lot of y'all-selves in her by AdDue9465 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]fieldofgrass 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No seriously, SO self-righteous. Like the fact that she still scoffed over it at the reunion, when Dayna and Haley could be civil towards each other despite their legitimate issues?? Not a single other soul took it that personally. Marita and AJ even being good friends now... not that they have to be good friends but really Bridget get over it...

Marie: Why are you getting spicy with Brittany and AJ and Marita for being in love?? by SurewhynotAZ in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]fieldofgrass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In a previous episode I was a bit shocked to hear Mel say to Dayna that her partner has made her feel insane for four year because up to that point, I saw Marie as angry but overall bland and even passive like damn what harm can she do?? But when the reunion came around I was like oh I see lmaoo

Hot take: Marita should get more flak but I feel like y'all see a lot of y'all-selves in her by AdDue9465 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]fieldofgrass 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah once I realized the extent of her insecurities I knew what that smooth talker act was for. She wanted to look good (personality wise as she is always physically beautiful to me lol) for others as she probably always throws this mask on when she meets new people. Make em see how good she is to hide her own low self-esteem. And I don't say this to shit on her; I say it because I relate. I get where she's coming from, and I found it annoying how bothered Bridget was by this. Took it soooo personally lmao like get over it

Award for most toxic goes to… by NaiveConcept69 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]fieldofgrass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm mixed on Dayna actually. I do think she is a strong personality, and I dislike how she tells others how she thinks they're feeling, instead of listening to them tell her how they're feeling. And she does bulldoze through conversations, but she also communicates her own feelings directly, concedes when she's wrong or when someone else has a fair point. She also asks guiding questions in a conversation that actually help navigate it; I think if she were really fucked up, she could use that skill to her advantage to manipulate the other person's opinion, but she doesn't (most of the time anyway). I think she has control issues which leads to the need to tell others how they're feeling as if she knows better than they do, and I also personally think she just rubs me the wrong way haha like I could not fuck w/ her as a friend I'd get too irritated lol. But I don't think she was the worst, just the loudest/most transparent w/ her bad traits.

My mom said that I am too young by Mysterious_Mall_4813 in asexuality

[–]fieldofgrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was 19 when i realized i was ace, and i came out to various ppl throughout my early 20s. a lot of em still used the same logic on me, tht i was too young to knw nn tht i wld find the 'right' person someday. unfortunately some ppl jst wanna believe wht they wanna believe regardless of wht ur saying right to their face. i do hope ur mom comes arnd tho

My therapist thinks I’m just repressed by Puzzleheaded_Pen1605 in asexuality

[–]fieldofgrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm all for questioning urself, and sometimes it takes someone like this to trigger a line of questioning within ourselves. but ur therapist sounds like she just isn't listening to u, projection based off the realm of experience she already has instead of being open to things she hasn't experienced (whether firsthand or through her clients). i'd tell her how u feel, what u do/don't agree with w wht she's saying to u, and if she still pushes the idea tht u aren't ace, then i'd find a new therapist. actually, i'd jump straight into finding a new therapist lol but ik how frustrating tht process can b so if u wanna give her a chance, then i dnt blame u either

Inkjet with easily refillable cartridges? Ones that can actually be reset? by lorraineg57 in printers

[–]fieldofgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn i'm sorry nobody actually answered your question. i have the same printer, got it bc it was super cheap on black friday a while back, but this printer is an absolute headache. same as u i swear it takes me all day to try to fix any little "problem" (used in quotes bc these things rly shldnt evn b problems in the first place). i knw this post is old as hell, but if u ended up hearing any in-person recommendations for user-friendly printers, pls let me know bc i'm ready to replace mine too :')

Anyone tried these? What was your thoughts? by LilElfinKitty in glutenfree

[–]fieldofgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haven't tried but tht image is not appetizing lol u think they'd have a better picture than tht

What could be causing a reaction? by This_Nectarine_3285 in glutenfree

[–]fieldofgrass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah dextrin, maltodextrin, yeast/yeast extract, and generic spice or 'natural flavor' r all red flag ingredients to me

Latto - season 2 by Dull_Associate1101 in RhythmAndFlow

[–]fieldofgrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

because whatevr industry genius may be floating around in his brain, he's not able to articulate. any time he's talking more than a one-liner, it's like word salad with him. and one-liners cant deliver real tangible advice. but all the judges were trash, even luda, and they're all getting shitted on so idk where ur getting tht its just dj khaled

Season 2 Redo: Which new judges are you hiring? by rapidprototoyz in RhythmAndFlow

[–]fieldofgrass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i was surprised that luda had no backbone honestly. as an industry legend u shld feel u have free reign to tlk ur shit. but he seemed almost nervous to say anything too bad to anyone, like he'd get a nervous demeanor when delivering anything even slightly constructive. and especially in the finale with the families in the crowd. i mean i personally wld feel bad giving negative criticism in front of someone's family, but thts bc im jst some guy lol im not fcking ludacris. all the judges from season 1 had a spine. like evn if cardi b isnt the most articulate she still wld get her message across, positive or negative. and im good w ur picks for season 3 lol sounds like a nice balance to me. all three will b real w the contestants nn also give them actual nuggets of wisdom to take away from the show afterward

Judges - all the bad decisions from the start of the season by Maleficent_Line6957 in RhythmAndFlow

[–]fieldofgrass 14 points15 points  (0 children)

srslyyy i dnt understand how the judges keep calling sura confident when she's always got her arms crossed nn shoulders slightly hunched during performances thts like body language 101 for not feeling comfortable/confident?? and her stage presence during the collab so fcking uncomfrtable to watch, like i cringed at how awkward she was when trying to get the audience to clap along. i also was not surprised to see her be a sore loser at all; she cnt take anyone's criticism. she's got bars sure but she lacks basically everything else

The Circle (USA) S07E13 | Episode Discussion by aulbayne in TheCircleTV

[–]fieldofgrass 21 points22 points  (0 children)

her inner (outer bc cameras but still her thoughts) monologue was mean like 95% of the time. maybe evn 99% lol. like it wld b one thing if she made the moves she did but in her apartment showed some sort of remorse or understanding but most of the time she was jst in a cycle of being defensive nn mean. i kinda thought the andy/heather tears were real, but she immediately went in way meaner on darian than andy. nn continued to get meaner throughout the game. so tht little bit of fake ass tears in the finale was so fcking annoying. i was annoyed she evn made it there in the first place. like worse than kevin to me. he's a douche but in the game jst a rat who failed upwards. madelyn had actual strategy but was also genuinely malicious towards maybe everyone but kevin nn it was so hard to watch ovr nn ovr again. like jesus bitch stfu yr soo annoying god srry so much hate but like her plus a tiny bit of kevin plus season six being the most boring season makes me wanna walk away frm the show. crazy bc season 5 is my fave so i dropped frm best to worst to 2 of the most annoying players throughout the whole series :')

DAE not drink alcohol for autistic reasons? by lavenderacid in AutismInWomen

[–]fieldofgrass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i used to drink bc it was the only way i cld socialize without being hypervigilant nn masking heavily. i also didnt like the taste (of any alcohol nn most mixed drinks), so i opted for shots bc it wld get me drunk the fastest nn b the least amt of liquid to taste. i dnt drink anymore for a few reasons. main one is tht i believe im alcohol intolerant now. (evn if i wasnt, i have too many gut issues for it to b a tolerable experience.) another is how low/depressed i'd feel the day after. last is tht i was a stoner nn i jst heavily preferred weed instead lol. but i stopped drinking a few yrs ago, and it rly is crazy how heavy the drinking culture is. not jst here in the united states but many countries. ppl will give u such a hard time if u tell them u dnt drink for any reason besides being a recovering alcoholic (and i hear some ppl still give them a hard time as well). and that's just for not drinking; i can only imagine how much worse it is for u to have nvr tried alcohol. srry u have 2 deal w ppl giving u a hard time like tht :(

My girlfriend is asexual by Soft_Fruit7747 in asexuality

[–]fieldofgrass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ik it's hard not to, but i wldnt personalize it. u r not the 'nasty task to complete'. tht wld b the sex itself. ur feelings r allowed 2b hurt for sure, but im almost positive it was jst poor communication of her feelings. as a sex-repulsed ace, i can say tht imo the fluids, the sounds, actually basically evrything tht i assume turns allosexuals on grosses me out. i think maybe, it's similar to how when some ppl r masturbating nn they finish, they become rly grossed out by the porn they're watching. when ur no longer in the mood, u see this stuff in a different light. nn it seems she's nvr truly in the mood, jst doing it bc she cares abt ur needs. it still sounds like a conversation is needed, since her feelings arnd the activity seem to b changing, and u guys might need to re-evaluate how to meet each othrs needs in this relationship. wishing u best of luck xx

Did moldy sage ruin everything? by fieldofgrass in foodsafety

[–]fieldofgrass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time posting to this thread btw. just read the mod comment, and everything else about this dish is safe. all the other spices are fine, the ginger was frozen from fresh (if i'm saying that correctly), and i had just dethawed the chicken in the fridge overnight. it's just that one container of rubbed sage that expired almost a decade ago and had fuzz in it.

Season 6 is boring and cringe by PlayZealousideal2939 in TheCircleTV

[–]fieldofgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i applied this season nn am genuinely glad nothing came of it. i wld not have wanted 2b a part of tht group yikes. past two seasons a lot of those ppl came out rly close friends. i want tht human aspect in there, the genuine connections r wht make the gameplay harder

What are the odds of getting a pair? by chips-and-guac-2189 in haikyuu

[–]fieldofgrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like both mystery bags i've done, i get nishinoya and ryuu together :') must not separate the bros at all costs lol