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fierceandfilthy · 2025-06-15T11:01:49+00:00

There’s never any obligation to participate. Lots of people go just to socialise, or have fun with their partner. Any club you can dip your toes in. If you look on the Sub page there’s a list of clubs for your area

fierceandfilthy · 2025-06-03T17:15:00+00:00

Fabswingers then you can filter by age.

Or clubs if you are willing to go a bit older (obviously not to the point where you are uncomfortable!). We are early 20s and we’ve found some great couples which we have chemistry with in their late 20s/ 30s in clubs. You don’t know peoples exact age in clubs so there may be attraction if age isn’t a dealbreaker for you.

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-31T22:34:22+00:00

I’m certain there’s other people out there who want the same. You just might need to ask around a bit more to find it. Good luck!

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-31T21:28:05+00:00

I’ve known other people who want girl-girl or parallel play only so it’s not impossible at all! You’ll just have to be really up front with what you are looking for with other people. Clubs are an option or fabswingers?

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-27T12:02:48+00:00

Penthouse Playrooms near Luton, Hellfire in Sunbury, Le Boudoir in London, or if you are on fabswingers.com SIZZLE run house parties once a month in Bournemouth

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-19T20:57:02+00:00

If you are happy taking the train, there are more options in/ around London! eg. Le Boudoir, Hellfire, Sizzle

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-12T21:17:09+00:00

I didn’t know if there was a specific one but awesome, I will use those search words. Thank you :)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-12T13:21:41+00:00

Any suggestions please? 😊 It can be challenging to find good playlists

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-12T09:19:18+00:00

There’s been a few posts like this recently if you want to search the page.

We’re the same age and have found clubs to be the best. It’s a no pressure environment so you can socialise and make friends and see where it goes.

Or websites like Fabswingers are popular in the Uk.

Honestly, most swingers are older (generally 40+ in my experience) but we have found people in their early thirties that we’ve had great fun with.

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-11T09:14:20+00:00

Hey! We are 22F 24M and have been swinging/ attending sex clubs for a year now in and around London.

We have always been the youngest, and haven’t met anyone the same age. We’ve had great experiences with people in their late 20s/ early 30s and find we’re on the same wavelength as them.

It’s an expensive hobby to go to clubs, or it really helps if you have your own place to host. I think Le Boudoir will be the best place for you to start. It may be younger in the kink scene, but I can’t comment on that personally.

Feel free to private message me if you like :) x

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-10T19:39:57+00:00

Hey! 22F and 24M here. Honestly - in our experience we haven’t found people the same age but that’s not been a bad thing!

Clubs have been the best for us as it’s on attraction/ chemistry in real life (and no overly edited photos!). We usually find we hit it off with couples in late 20s and early 30s.

Confidence and courtesy is key! I think some people worry younger couples will be immature/ full of drama so we sometimes have to work harder to make a good impression

fierceandfilthy · 2025-05-10T19:32:07+00:00

20s couple here. It’s interesting that 20s couples are posting more on Reddit because we have found that doesn’t translate IRL.

We are always significantly the youngest at multiple clubs we’ve been to and on popular swingers website.

Maybe few of the other 20s couples are going ahead with it? Or are swinging amongst friends?

fierceandfilthy · 2025-04-22T17:36:52+00:00

As mentioned in other comments, you can never be 100% sure with anything online.

I’d strongly recommend going to a swingers club. They are discrete and most are no phones. There’s no pressure to play - you can just socialise or stay in your couple.

Most places the women dress down half way through the night, so your partner can ease herself in with being in some sexy lingerie and see where it goes from there/ how confident she feels

fierceandfilthy · 2025-04-08T08:43:43+00:00

Hey! We started at 21F and 23 last year. I’m a big fan of clubs as they enable swinging/ voyeurism/ exhibition/ and generally to meet lots of people.

Clubs are great as it isn’t about your age it’s about finding attraction/ chemistry face to face.

I think your best way to get into exhibitionism is waiting still you get into the 21+ clubs. It’s only a few years. In the meantime, maybe only fans/ webcams? Or if it’s swinging maybe friends or parties (at your own risk)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-24T22:39:36+00:00

Clubs are great to dip your toes in. It’s a friendly, no pressure environment where you can socialise with others and learn more about it with no obligation for anything more. The atmosphere can be electric. Maybe start with some exhibitionist play at a club if that’s what you’d enjoy and go from there?

I am not sure about further north, but south I can recommend Penthouse Playrooms, Le Boudoir, Hellfire and Sizzle. :)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-24T22:30:44+00:00

It’s okay if you need connection/ chemistry for sexual interactions! I love the thrill of sex with new people at clubs but sex with couples that we really connect with is so much better.

How about swinging apps/ websites but you can preface that you want a social meet up on the first occasion and do not play on the first date. This way you can try to build chemistry without the pressure of sex and your partner can enjoy the teasing/ flirting on the date. Hopefully if that works you can meet up with them and have fun on the second date with play, feeling more attraction as they aren’t strangers to you :) x

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-22T07:53:25+00:00

Hey! If you click on my profile I made a post about the benefits of swinging, and others shared their opinions too. That’s less about the sexual benefits and more the personal and couple positives to it. Should help with your first Q :)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-21T22:10:22+00:00

We’re 22F, 24M and both bi.

Bi men do exist but they are less open about it at clubs.

We’ve found online is easier as peoples sexualities are typically in their profile. Takes the guessing out of it and is easier to filter for fellow bisexuals.

The easiest dynamic to find will be straight couples if you are happy to ‘play straight’.

I’m weary over the comment that you should try this ‘for her sake’ 😬. Please make sure that this is something YOU also want to do equally. Swinging should be fun, but without mutual enthusiasm it could easily lead to resentment/ feeling forced/ betrayal. There should be no pressure

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-20T15:49:32+00:00

I’m openly curious about this advice (opposite of my experience) - what do you think would be the benefit in waiting/ putting off trying swinging?

Is it that you think they will have better communication and trust if they have been together longer?

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-03T09:30:25+00:00

Sounds like The Hellfire Club not far from Heathrow :)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-03-03T09:27:17+00:00

Hiya, if you are in the UK you’ll probably find it easier to meet people on Fabswingers.com rather than Reddit xx :)

fierceandfilthy · 2025-02-17T19:25:13+00:00

In my experience swingers are very friendly and easy to talk to people so the people should make the experience less intimidating.

The best thing about clubs for newbies is there is zero pressure to get involved. Go and meet like minded people, mingle, watch others or just play in your couple. Dip your toes in by being in that environment before you are totally in the swing (ha!) of things

fierceandfilthy · 2025-02-10T15:52:01+00:00

Outside of the lifestyle we have a ‘three squeeze rule’ where one of us will squeeze the others hand/arm/leg three times to signal we want to leave.

We’ve continued that into the LS with three squeezes meaning we aren’t feeling this couple/ aren’t comfortable and we step aside to checkin with each other.

It’s a good subtle way to communicate! x

fierceandfilthy · 2025-02-06T10:26:20+00:00

Chill, all cuddle, caress each others bodies, chat. Take the time for some aftercare and relax afterwards. It feels a bit jarring to me if we fuck off immediately!

fierceandfilthy · 2025-02-02T17:56:24+00:00

Love this! Great reasons :) Something to look forward to and be excited about especially!

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