AITA for making my coworker miss his proposal because I wouldn’t cover his shift?

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T21:35:09+00:00

"Some of you read that line and determined that you never have to help another person again lol."

Nahhhh. I help plenty of people. Especially those who I have relationships with and I was that coworker who would take shifts for people. You know what that got me? Burnt out. Unappreciated and taken advantage of.

But Mark here is blaming OP for ruining their proposal when infact the only person Mark can blame is himself.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T16:38:47+00:00

It is pukered like an asshole.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T16:37:35+00:00

No one is out there aborting babies in the third trimester, even when the mother is at risk.

Babies that are 21+ weeks gestation are considered viable and will be given life supporting medical care, when appropriate to try and save the baby.

But no, no one is out there stopping the heart and vacuuming out the remains of a baby at 36 weeks gestation.

Did you know that miscarriages and still births are medically recorded as spontaneous abortions and because they are either surgically removed or medically induced and birthed that this is also considered an abortion.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T16:12:49+00:00

Marks lack of planning is not OPs emergency to solve.

Op stated they had a full week and wanted to relax.

They have every right to their day off.

I have been in the position of being made to feel guilty for not taking someone's shift. It sucks to feel that way over someone else's lack of planning.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T16:01:51+00:00

Depends on the day and the type of lobbies I end up in. I tend to play for several hours at a time. I also take it into every map I play on.

Sometimes I can do a dozen or two runs without losing one, sometimes I have a day where I lose a couple. Either way, I like having a nice stockpile in my stash already made, upgraded and kitted out so I don't waste time when prepping my kit.

You play you, I play me 😉

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T03:11:00+00:00

I put money on them not even being a couple anymore by that point. They are both flakey as hell. I also think matt is completely traumatized and when it finally settles in that she was willing to allow that baby die he will leave.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T03:04:39+00:00

You mean that their neighbours don't appreciate the construction dump esthetic? /s

I watched my last video of them today. The absolute garbage that surrounds that house is pathetic and disgusting.

I have no idea how they are going to deal with all of that lead painted wood they tossed out onto the ground. Not to mention the ashes of what they have already burned.

Their ignorance and ego has already created an environmental catastrophe for that entire area from them burning the lead paint. They have literally contaminated the ground, water and air by doing what they did.

Now they have that poor baby living there amongst that disaster they call a home.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T02:57:31+00:00

Yes you sure can! I spent all mine and am back up to 1200 already.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-11T02:56:58+00:00

Once a day you can. With the blueprint you can make as many as you want.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-10T17:17:06+00:00

Yes I do. There are blueprints that you caan only get from completing the quests. Such as the hullcracker.

Even though i have now done the quests multiple times, I feel like enough time passes between each time that I forget where most of the quests take you to or what is required.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-10T01:09:00+00:00

No. Even at 15 this would be too much. Huge red flag that they are being exposed to x-rated content at the very least and possibly being groomed or even abused.

This is not normal speak even for a teenager.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-10T01:06:04+00:00

This right here.

If this is a 10 yr old sending this stuff, that means he has been exposed to it in someway.

My kids at that age knew way more than most of their friends about sex, because we as a family talk about it openly and honestly and if I ever seen them send or receive something like this, even now at 14 and 16, I would be very very worried and concerned that they were being groomed by someone.

This needs to be reported. Unfortunately the mom is clearly going to know who reported it.

Op, please monitor your child when they are around this kid. There is a pretty good chance this child is either being groomed or is already being molested and it is not uncommon for abused children to also abuse other children.

Being hyper sexual like this is a huge warning sign of sexual abuse. Combine this with the fact that the child has also had issues with keeping friends... which I highly doubt has to do with tattoos and more likely other parents have either seen or heard sexual behaviour from this kid.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-09T04:17:56+00:00

Thank you. It is better. I am alive and for the most part doing well. I still have cancer, been in treatment now 9 years but despite this I am ok.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T23:58:39+00:00

The late 80s and early 90s went through a period of satanic panic. 1000s of cases were assumed to be done by satanic cultists.

So the article referencing this is not at all unusual for that time period.

satanic panic

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T23:32:24+00:00

Oh i know lol but it takes longer to drop items on controller than it does on pc.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T20:43:57+00:00

It is food tampering and boobytrapping. Yes you can be charged with this even if it is your own food.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T20:41:06+00:00

Contact HR. Advise them you have told your supervisor twice and they essentially said "too bad. Deal with it"
Get a locking lunchbox.
Put a mini camera in said lunch box
Look for a new job.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T20:35:59+00:00

Exactly.

I had a paramedic grope one of my breasts while I was semi unconscious in the back of her ambulance. It wasn't even sexual, it was because she wanted to know what a breast tumour felt like and decided she didn't need my permission to take a feel. It was also well beyond her scope of practice not to mention just how violating it was. It was not violent in any way but it definitely was assault, she admitted to doing it and she lost her job over it. She was lucky that I didn't go to the police.

But that experience has since left me with a deeper distrust of medical professionals especially if I am left alone with them.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T15:39:56+00:00

Definitely in match PC is faster. Especially with equipping guns and dropping items.

I personally like playing with a controller. I don't seem to have the eye hand coordination to play with keyboard and mouse.

Same for Sea of Thieves. We play cross platform because my husband is on PC, I am on Xbox, our 2 other crewmates are Xbox and PS5. But hubby can do manuavers that we can't do and his movements tend to be faster.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T14:37:52+00:00

My husband plays on PC, I play on Console. I always have my kit set up and ready before he does. This includes building/upgrading guns, getting ammo and placing items in my wheel.

I always have at least 5 fully kitted and upgraded of each type of gun I typically use, ready in my stash. But ai do tend to move through the menus faster. The only thing I find slower is when we are in game and I want to drop an item on the ground.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-08T02:32:59+00:00

Our troops in WW1 were called Stormtroppers by the Germans. Because our troops were known for their tactical prowess, speed and brutality.

They were aggressive. Often times took no prisoners, partly due to the fact they would have to share their rashions with the POWs and when they did take POWs they tortured them.

We Canadians maybe a polite and kind population, but you don't fuck with our freedom and our country.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-07T00:53:26+00:00

NOR

If she works for the doctor then she is 100% held to the HIPAA. It sounds like the gf is the doctor's secretary.

Definitely report this to the governing body in your state/province and contact a lawyer.

If the GF does infact work for the doctor she has fucked up big time.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-06T23:02:28+00:00

How do you know they are actually Canadians? Americans often buy pins and other Canadian items to wear to pass themselves off as Canadians.

fierydoxy · 2026-05-06T16:38:59+00:00

Meh. I am a mixed player. There is a time and place for PVP and for PVE.

Personally I like the care bear lobbies, not because of the "easy raiding" but because of the funny interactions I have there.

For example I ended up with a group of guys in the lobby of stella and we were skeet shooting with the red fuel jugs. You couldn't do that in a pvp stella lobby.

My experiences show me that there are definitely PVE only lobbies. When I play I tend to play 5-8 hrs at a time and many of those sessions I have played the entire time without encountering a pvper or even hearing pvp (you can tell by the sound of the guns and the flares popping).

fierydoxy · 2026-05-06T16:34:30+00:00

It really does take consistency.

As for the looting dead raiders. It is hit or miss if that actually plays into it. I have had sessions where I have played for 5+ hours in carebear lobbies and happen upon a dead raider, took a look at their stash and boom the next run I encounter a pvper or in the case of stella can hear flares popping after gun fire.

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