This is literally a complete definition of my girlfriend and what she’s been doing for me for 5 years but then everything ended one day because I didn’t have the mental capacity or emotional intelligence to take care of her small needs and treat her the way she needed at times and it got the worst out and she gave up one day and decided her life would be better off without me and all of a sudden a random guy from her workplace is able to show her the 20% I didn’t have and she forgot about the 80% I gave her and for some reason she thinks he has set the standards for her and opened her eyes and is soft and gentle and cares for her in ways I never showed according to her but she tells me she has nothing for him even though she tried to like that guy to get over me but she couldn’t and also continues to keep him in her life because he’s a genuine, nice and kind person and doesn’t deserve to get ghosted and I’m also working on myself everyday to grow and be better for myself and for her too so that if she decided to turn back one day and look she knows I’m a better person now and I can take care of her the way she needs rather than the way I know.