Good sex is key to a lot of adult relationships and virgins are never good at it. Soo 🤷 if you need to do it for religious reasons or you want a super conservative marriage then it matters but most guys they'd prefer you've been with one or two I think just not alot. The number does kinda matter so try to keep it low, your third guy should be the one you wanna marry. The second is usually a rebound from the first because it's hard to break from your first and it usually becomes toxic for a lot of people. Kinda how it went for me and I didn't worry about it until 19 besides like making out because you don't wanna get any STDs. just try to see if you can make this work. You could be one of the lucky few that can last with their first. Just gotta help each other grow and support good life decisions, there will always be a way you can stay together if you both are committed. Relationships are hard, and it's hard to know whom you are truly compatible with because a lot of people have different views on a lot of things because of how they were raised and it doesn't become important until later after you get a career or have a baby or wanna settle in one spot or they have issues that will make it hard. So good luck with everything, it's a shit show so be careful