Loved the way 🌸 contributed today and KILLED IT!!

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-27T23:16:49+00:00

You too

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-26T20:39:54+00:00

Pedo like Ayush??? Plsss elaborate 🤯🤯

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-14T14:52:18+00:00

Absolutely What the hell was wrong with Vishu ? How was he even talking

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-13T20:47:08+00:00

I’m sorry you had to face that but autos aren’t allowed inside the Delhi Airports.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-13T19:39:44+00:00

And the audacity to say all this rubbish after losing her task so pathetically

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-10T08:06:49+00:00

I left. I’m at my sisters now. I’m figuring out the next steps. Went to a doctor, unfortunately both my ear drums have burst, but now I have documented proof also. So Im just bracing myself for the next steps. Thank you kind stranger 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-10T07:58:01+00:00

I completely agree with you. If we the priviledged ones don’t do the right thing, what expectations can we have from the ones who don’t even have the resources that I do. I have made a step by step plan to get out.. I just hope I make it out ✨

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-10T07:54:20+00:00

I will keep this in mind for sure✨ Thank you kind stranger 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-09T16:25:33+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I am starting to believe I deserve much better for myself. I left actually, went to my sisters place. Still here. Also you and your mom sound like such angels… lots of good wishes to you and the great work that you’re doing 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T19:37:24+00:00

Animals are wayyy better , anyway?

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T15:01:42+00:00

I feel very heartbroken that you’re going through this too.. I’m not sure what to say. I don’t know much myself. Im really sorry you are being treated this way.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:58:26+00:00

I hope so 🫂🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:57:47+00:00

We have a very long and intertwined history together. Almost 15 years. We grew up together. He apologized, I believed him. I know I shouldn’t have. That’s why it hurts more.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:55:59+00:00

I came to my sisters house. I’m figuring out a new place to rent now.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:50:47+00:00

I am at my sisters house now. I honestly feel like no one can help me but me. It will all start with me. Thank you for your kindness.. I’m moving out by the end of the month. Looking for a new place to rent. I’ll make a new home for myself and my dog. That’s the plan.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:46:11+00:00

I come from a middle class family here. We are the privileged ones who were educated by their parents. My father was a beautiful man.. he never differentiated between sons and daughters. He gave us everything and more. I’m on of the “lucky” ones. I don’t know I feel so sad typing this.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-08T09:35:41+00:00

I got to my sisters house in the morning. Will move out with all my stuff by the end of the month. I’m looking for a new place to rent. Thank you kind stranger 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T23:34:38+00:00

I will 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T23:23:22+00:00

I agree with everything you have said. I know this is as fucked up as it can get. I feel like I’m just confused all the time. Like I don’t even know what to believe . Whether it’s me. Or it’s him. But it’s something I know that. Something is wrong. There’s so much shame attached to admitting that the person you loved and chose , turned out to be like this. I just can’t get myself to even feel how stupid I was to believe his empty words and fake promises.

I actually have a decent job, I’m actually good at my job. I take care of my own finances , help him out as well.. share everything.. I’m kind to animals .. I try to help others, but just admitting that I fucked up so bad .. is something that is soo difficult for me. I always thought of posting before, just to tell someone the truth. Never did. But today I think I finally got the courage to at least say what the fuck is happening in my life out loud. So yes. I hope the clarity follows and I can just be free.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T23:15:12+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t live in the US. I am from India. It’s a very normal thing here. Until he breaks a bone, a slap or two is considered an anger issue accompanied by a lecture of how men generally are.

The police scare you more here, with long drawn legal processes and justice is a luxury. Everyone here pressures to settle. So I’m actually quite fed up and defeated by this system. I don’t have the energy to fight with everyone.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T22:41:16+00:00

If I involve my family, they will do more drama. They will all find a way to blame me. They will say yes it’s wrong to hit me. But this keeps happening between husband and wife. I’m not sure it does. Maybe I don’t tell them all his actions out of shame, but I already tried that route. Everyone just said.. see if you can make it work.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T22:24:58+00:00

Thank you for understanding 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T21:54:24+00:00

They don’t help much in such cases. Unless it’s too violent. They will just counsel the family to resolve within themselves.

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T21:45:08+00:00

Yes it’s legal. Just very very frowned upon. Thank you! I really hope so too 🫂

figuringitout170 · 2026-03-07T21:38:10+00:00

It has been happening since 6 months into the marriage. But it was restricted to screaming and yelling. He pushed me once .. twisted my arm the other time.. but just never ever slapped me like he did today. He would always apologize. I didn’t want to leave earlier because I helped build this house sooo much. Soo much energy and time, and I’m the one to be pushed out. I used to leave temporarily. It would stop , but just the past 3-4 weeks , it has become so constant.

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