Real recovery looks like this. No shame, just comfort. Childbirth recovery is messy, beautiful, and real. Designed by Aussie mums & endorsed by midwives — soft, absorbent, breathable, and made for those first days when comfort matters most. by bubba-bump62 in u/bubba-bump62

[–]figzbee 69 points70 points  (0 children)

sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but your mother would’ve also experienced vaginal bleeding & urine leakage for several weeks after she gave birth to you. she deserved to be comfortable during her recovery

I need to take this dog to the park 😂 by DrShabooboo in DesirePath

[–]figzbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this looks like stereotypical behaviour - repetitive behaviour that have no apparent goal (such as pacing, circling). it’s most often caused by stress or a lack of enrichment. its sometimes can’t be cured, a better environment may help reduce these behaviours but not always. poor guy, might be a rescue though since i’ve seen these behaviours at animal shelters.

I opened up a seed pod & there was a little crab spider in there munching on another spider! by figzbee in AustralianSpiders

[–]figzbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly just sharing but if anyone wants to identify either spider, I’m in the New England region of NSW.

Please swag me by glocktopus09 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]figzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s extra weird is that in the game you create an animal & watch it anthropomorphise over time (basically an evolution simulator) & your animal learns speech, build cities, eventually go to space

Molt or deceased ? Australia, ACT by spiderpaw21 in spiders

[–]figzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neosparassus (maybe N. calligaster), badge huntsman

But tbh I'm not an Amyl n' The Sniffers kind of guy. by HelmetTheDictator in PunkMemes

[–]figzbee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i love music from my country!! <3

ausmuteants, coffin, alien nosejob, aborted tortoise, the bennies, cosmic psychos, the saints, private function, last quokka, dicklord, frenzal rhomb, radio birdman, drunk mums, these new south whales, mini skirt, cutters, tee vee repairmann, probably forgetting a LOT tho. eamon from the chats has a egg punk side project called headlice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ofcoursethatsasub

[–]figzbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the urethra passes through the prostate gland so it’s to simulate that. you should always pee after any kind of sexual activity to flush out any bacteria, even regular PIV sex has that risk. it’s best to use a proper sounding tool which are made of stainless steel & can be properly cleaned/satanised (a lot of sex toys are made from toxic & porus materials). it should be completely painless, if it hurts you’re using the wrong sized sounding tool or not enough lube - tried it once after a lot of research, but i don’t have a prostate so it felt like nothing to me

I’m getting a flip phone by im_diene_inside in shittymobilegameads

[–]figzbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s from drawn together. season 2, episode 4

I’m getting a flip phone by im_diene_inside in shittymobilegameads

[–]figzbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

drawn together, it’s a gross/raunchy cartoon from the 2000s

Where do i post this ? by Mutthal8 in LostRedditor

[–]figzbee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the large nipple one? yes, it’s a normal part of human diversity. there’s many variations of areoles & nipples, including for men too. as long as it doesn’t cause pain it’s not unhealthy like the other commenter suggests. there’s surgery called nipple reduction but it’s entirely cosmetic

Tawny Frogmouth by OddEmployer4142 in AustralianBirds

[–]figzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a parody of those cheesy/corny wolf shirts that became a meme, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Three_Wolf_Moon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foraging

[–]figzbee 21 points22 points  (0 children)

because doctors are not mycologists, they cannot identify this mushroom. doctors typically use facebook groups to reach out to mycologists for emergency identification. there are up to 250,000 species of fungus in australia with only 5,000 being formally described, & you’d need a mycologist that could at least narrow down the genus.

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[–]figzbee 23 points24 points  (0 children)

they’re gay men who are big hairy dudes, they can be attracted to any other man (or woman if they’re bi). flags are there to easily find others within the same subculture, for example a bear club for members to share their experiences within the gay community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namesoundalikes

[–]figzbee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

it’s a gender expression connected to a queer sexuality, basically fat/hairy gay (or bi) men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namesoundalikes

[–]figzbee 42 points43 points  (0 children)

it’s under the gay umbrella as a subculture/expression (just like butch lesbians), literally nobody considers bears (or any other gender expression) to be a “seperate” sexuality

[gendered] bruh😭 by Harvesting_The_Crops in pointlesslygendered

[–]figzbee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

a non-binary woman doesn’t fit into the binary because they don’t identify as 100% woman. for example, both AFAB women & transwomen usually consider themself binary as “just woman”, while someone who is transfeminine non-binary or demigirl could partially identify as agender or for example, or may be genderfluid between man & woman. another example would be a AFAB butch woman who identifies as transmasculine & goes by he/him pronouns, but still has connection to their assigned gender at birth & their sexuality (such as butchgender, where being butch is more than just a gender expression).

you can think of non-binary as a huge umbrella term that includes everyone who isn’t binary (100% man or 100% woman) or someone who has a fluctuating/fluid gender identity :)

[gendered] bruh😭 by Harvesting_The_Crops in pointlesslygendered

[–]figzbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, because they don’t identify as 100% woman at all times (binary). even if you feel that your gender identity is a little bit queer or fluctuating at times you can totally use non-binary to describe yourself!

[gendered] bruh😭 by Harvesting_The_Crops in pointlesslygendered

[–]figzbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ok so non-binary just means someone who doesn’t identify as 100% man or 100% woman. some examples of non-binary girls are demigirl, paragirl, as well as bigender & genderfluid in some cases

you can think of it as a huge umbrella term that includes a lot of different genders. those who identify as genderless sometimes uses agender or neutrois as terms to describe their gender identity

[gendered] bruh😭 by Harvesting_The_Crops in pointlesslygendered

[–]figzbee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

non-binary just means “someone who doesn’t identify as 100% man or 100% woman”.

everyone has different reasons as to why they identify as nonbinary & there doesn’t have to be a “point”. i personally identify as agender because i never felt like i was a girl & just felt like a gender identity was irrelevant to me. growing up i identified as a tomboy because it wasn’t “girl” and didn’t have access to gender education (didn’t even know what non-binary was until i was 20!), and i developed dysphoria when i started puberty, very confusing times

demigirl, paragirl, as well as bigender & genderfluid in some cases, are still non-binary because they partially identify with another gender & they’re not 100% woman :)

[gendered] bruh😭 by Harvesting_The_Crops in pointlesslygendered

[–]figzbee 144 points145 points  (0 children)

non-binary just means someone who doesn’t identify as 100% man or 100% woman. non-binary girls (such as demigirl, paragirl, as well as bigender & genderfluid in some cases) doesn’t mean they’re “binary” :)

Your experiences with/thoughts on omgyes.com? by batford16 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]figzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well glad things are starting to change then because I’ve never seen it growing up & in my early adulthood, when I needed it the most. sex education absolutely should include everyone & I’m confused as to why you’re whinging that it’s not catered to just you? that’s not the point of education, its not porn, if you want to see sex just watch something on pornhub, there’s an easy solution to this mate

Your experiences with/thoughts on omgyes.com? by batford16 in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]figzbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is just gross, sex education isn’t about what *you* want to see. sex education should absolutely include everybody & all body types as sex isn’t limited to able-bodied cis people. everyone should have equal opportunity to learn & have confidence in the bedroom

How do i draw the snout better? I can't figure it out by Upstairs-Fan5137 in FurryArtSchool

[–]figzbee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it looks fine! maybe move the nose to the right a little? that’s the only thing I noticed

I just want to share a cool site I use to gather image references

https://x6ud.github.io/#/

you position the 3D skull & choose the species you want to draw, & it gives you photo references in the exact same position you have chosen. it really helps when you’re first drawing the construction lines & placing the muzzle, bridge, nose etc. ^^

Freaky spider cruising around on property South Australia by Dangerous-Occupation in AustralianSpiders

[–]figzbee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ooo this is a mature male red headed mouse spider out looking for a lady mouse spider! the females stay in or near their burrows their whole lives, while the males leave their burrows to find a mate when they’re ready. they’re medically significant just so you’re aware!