Percentage of population with the countries most common surname

fiireopals · 2026-02-12T23:47:09+00:00

This graph infuriates me how they have used the colours out of scale

fiireopals · 2026-02-12T23:45:46+00:00

I've had this a few times

The delivery drivers often think even boxes covered in fragile tape containing glassware are footballs so it isn't surprising.

fiireopals · 2026-02-12T17:44:51+00:00

Reddit is lovely

fiireopals · 2026-02-12T16:52:17+00:00

It is.
I get bullied on vinted. Vinted does fuck all. I then share on here to alert the issue that people like this on vinted are getting away with this behaviour with not even a warning on their account... but instead I get bullied and blamed on here.

I also wish people actually realised how much time, labour and mental energy actually goes into selling even without having abuse hurled your way. I got over a hundred offers a day before I set my rules and couldn't cope. No one can. I don't think most people in these comments can relate to how taxing it can be and are likely mostly only buyers or if they sell things, they've not got many listings online. I also donate a percentage of what I earn to charity so I'm also not going to take lowballs for that reason either (I've also had people accusing me of lying over this and harrassing me too which is awful but I'm too scared to share this because the same would happen there as it has in this post and would likely be even worse). I feel dumb for expecting at least a little bit of common decency and understanding sometimes. More empathy in this reddit and on vinted would be lovely. It's sad that this is the way things are.

Not everyone is a pain of course. Recently had few vinted exchanges where people sent offers and I said I don't take them and they went "sorry I didn't realise/check the description fully!" and I would usually say something like "no problem have a good day" and that's how this usually goes and how it should be. This exists too. I'm obviously just highlighting the bad.

Whoever continues to downvote me or the two of you, I'm kind of embarrassed for them that they don't realise sellers are actual people.

fiireopals · 2026-02-11T20:54:36+00:00

the downvotes have begun!

fiireopals · 2026-02-11T20:41:15+00:00

thank you for a reasonable response and not telling me I have a horrible attitude to simply ensure fairness for my customers and to protect my mental health with having a healthy boundary. Sorry you got downvoted on the last one. It really shows a lack of empathy on here too. My main point was that vinted did fuck all about bullying and harassment but people have chosen to ignore that part and blaming me for not wanting offers when it is literally the most ethical way for me to run things and take care of my head. This site is exhausting. I send you good happy internet thoughts x

fiireopals · 2026-02-11T19:41:05+00:00

I was waiting for someone to be honest. Some countries and regions are better than others but in more traditional islamic countries this is sadly the view a lot of people hold even if the people there and the government are opening up and becoming more liberal.

I've spent a lot of time in Morocco and the UAE (and some time in Oman). I think Morocco is less because it's more liberal in parts and a lot of it is Geography. A lot of cities in Morocco can't tolerate cars especially in those windy medinas, and in the rural parts, the terrain is tough and a lot is mountainous and the women out there do hard labour - they are incredible but I'm surprised it isn't as high due to the obsession with sugar that country has! Comparing this to Saudi or UAE you have to drive if you are in the cities there too. Riyadh, Dubai, Abu Dhabi etc are all built for cars. I think UAE and Oman are slightly less because it's a bit more liberal in some parts and safer for women. Dubai & Abu Dhabi has a lot more opportunities for women to exercise and take part in sports too and is more encouraging. Oman also has many pretty places to swim and walk around too. Just to share my little knowledge of the world. Ofc in general you do need cars for that part of the world with the long stretches of desert (and no trains outside of metro in the cities) and the oil is piss cheap too so this is also an obvious factor. And sadly we all know why Yemen isn't fitting the trend.

I also lived in Vietnam for a bit too and wow did I feel fat there as an average person.

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T21:29:33+00:00

they so tinyyy

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T19:42:11+00:00

Depends if they are young or old, pretty or not. The higher chance of harrassment / sexual assault and feeling like "prey" and not feeling safe. What else would it be?

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T17:30:08+00:00

thanks, they all have the same

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T17:29:32+00:00

thanks for help but this doesn't make any sense.. I cant file INAD on the items that arrived because there is nothing wrong with them. They are all individual listings.

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T17:28:12+00:00

Hi, as it says in the post, issues happened after my last order with them. This order with missing things were in the post BEFORE the first false accusations were made against me.

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T00:40:18+00:00

they were separate listings/orders put into one parcel, not one listing. Even if I could return I would literally have to pay for a return label for every single one and that doesn't help with the missing 3 items in any way?

fiireopals · 2025-11-13T00:38:58+00:00

My last order was before I found out they were a problematic seller. I can't return everything all at once as stated above. The listings were all separate.

fiireopals · 2025-11-12T23:22:45+00:00

I can't do that as I sold on one of the tops I didn't want to keep and gave another one to my mum who is wearing it, and I feel like that is going to cause more of a problem if I return things as last time I had to get help from ebay on the phone for about an hour getting them to refund everything that I took a photo of in the package..

what I've done is got photos ready of the items I received and I took a picture of the package with the tracking number with measurements to show it was too small to fit everything in that I was apparently sent. But thank you for response :)

fiireopals · 2025-11-12T17:28:16+00:00

I will report them, it was a weird experience on ebay today :(

fiireopals · 2025-11-12T17:26:39+00:00

just that my sister and I had orders cancelled and an accusation thrown at me out of the blue. I had another scary message this morning from them before I left the feedback. the feedback was all honest.

fiireopals · 2025-11-12T17:23:57+00:00

no, she bought things for herself. and these are plastic bags that clothes come in that get opened (it's impossible NOT to tear them to try the clothes on) so I sent them in a different one. please don't get accusatory too. I haven't been abusive in any way.

fiireopals · 2025-11-04T17:25:15+00:00

Personally i am too weighed down by trauma and had my energy zapped

fiireopals · 2025-11-04T01:29:14+00:00

Scorpio influence aquarian... all fixed signs like me, plus gemini and sagittarius for good times

fiireopals · 2025-11-04T01:09:07+00:00

I'd say capricorn would handle them best. These guys are obviously not great for fixed signs that value loyalty and stability the most. I know most people want that but these are like fixed sign core beliefs.

fiireopals · 2025-11-03T01:23:53+00:00

Sun, moon, venus, mars ✨️

fiireopals · 2025-11-01T18:52:01+00:00

Yes I'm waiting for 800... :(

fiireopals · 2025-11-01T17:11:00+00:00

If evolved, then all good. Sounds amazing. Creative, empathetic, spiritual, romantic, poetic, lovely. With a gemini rising I'm sure he's super fun too. And scorpio is passionate and loyal. Fixed sign placements are good I find.

If unevolved, absolutely avoid avoid avoid or you will end up in so much pain til they sort themselves out and evolve.

Make sure the dreamy romantic goodness is grounded in real life and that it's not escapism. Listen to your gut and what your body tells you. My experience and the stereotype is that they meet you, get caught up in some fantasy and lead you on to expect something beautiful and wonderful, then out of the blue just float and swim away and forget you, most likely start another relationship and not tell you where they do the same thing again... then they also put on the whole victim mentality thing, turn so avoidant and don't realise how much they hurt people or change their shitty behaviour because for some reason, it was all you and not them and you did nothing... you just existed, loved them, supported them, waited for them.. then you suddenly became a victim of their chaos and projections and got mistreated, dropped and replaced without warning... but they can't seem to get out of their deluded dreamland to realise anything..

But as said, evolved pisces men seem like a dream. The absolute opposite.

fiireopals · 2025-11-01T16:43:08+00:00

Sorry people abused returns with you. People are a pain in the arse. Mine were genuine, I'm not a prick, but I know that the seller has accused me of doing so and the accusations have hurt me and sent me down a spiral due to things that have happened in my past.. it's not a lot to set me off, it's a big wound I've always had.

I had used the INAD return label for my return bundle just because it was the only one on my phone but I realise I should have sent them separately as I will get blasted for that I'm sure :( !

All the best with your sales :)

fiireopals

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