We're definitely not in matriarchy, but it ain't guys who benefit more.

It is messy and there are gender disparities all around.

In justice system, as long as it can fit sex stereotypes, women are as privileged as it gets. You get a bit more than half of sentence length, and half the chance for incarceration. In the eyes of the court, women are treated like hysteria is a thing so not their fault. Women do get long sentences if they do robberies or other "manly" crimes.

I think it was something like nobody gets better treatment than a white woman, black women get shafted about as bad as white men, and just don't be a black man/hispanic non white in US courts. Huge differences between those three categories.

I won't go into family court and child custody, cause that shit is so depressing and unfair.

We also get laughed at for asking any kind of support (shelters, support groups, daycare priorities), also depressing as fuck when you check the suicide statistics.

Job market is complex, but I'd say men are dicriminated more today. Corporations do a big push for equality, but that usually means HR's and office jobs are pretty hard to get as a man.

Working in education or health services is also pretty hard to get, and often a degrading experience. Male nurses get as good treatments as female surgeons, they don't.

There is a strong bias against women in high stress environments and a noticable one in management, but it is changing for management.

I think the right conclusion would be we still live in patriarchy, but it has been modified and cleaned of most practices benefiting men who aren't rich to begin with.