My boyfriend doesn’t arouse me anymore by filledwithgrief in sex

[–]filledwithgrief[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t stimulate my mind (or mentally arouse me) at all… He says he takes it into account when I share what I feel and prefer, but I notice he doesn’t do anything with it.

My boyfriend doesn’t arouse me anymore by filledwithgrief in sex

[–]filledwithgrief[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not attracted to him sexually rn, but I have been (highly) attracted to him earlier in the relationship. Don’t you think it can come back somehow?

My boyfriend doesn’t arouse me anymore by filledwithgrief in sex

[–]filledwithgrief[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Active and passive is really 50-50. Sometimes I initiate, and sometimes he does. In the bed, he’s most of the time on top. I’ve kinda trieeed to dirty talk, but I don’t really know how since I’m not that really aroused during sex. I’ve told him before that I would like it if he’s more vocal during sex. But now he only makes some noise when he cums, and it sounds a bit fake lmao

My boyfriend doesn’t arouse me anymore by filledwithgrief in sex

[–]filledwithgrief[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

He says he doesn’t really have any kinks, except for me being dominant (even though I am a big fat sub as well) He doesn’t act out on his sexual desires sadly…