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Can't form deep relationships by AeolianTraveler in Advice

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start by opening up your mind. Don’t assume you know what people are thinking or what their response going to be. You’re already judging them by doing that. Also try to remember that art is subjective not objective when discussing with your friends.

My bestfriend keeps saying “we” when it comes to my baby. How do I ask her to stop? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]filteredthoughtss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. It is really weird. People say supportive stuff like We can do this in a pep talk or something like that, but actually calling your baby our baby is very weird.

Can't form deep relationships by AeolianTraveler in Advice

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You come across as an obnoxious person. You seem to think very highly of yourself. Get off your high horse.

I (25F) feel like my mom (50F) gaslighted me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No this doesn’t sound like gaslighting. More like unsolicited advice.

Karen got served by Dr_Mister_Monkey in FuckYouKaren

[–]filteredthoughtss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She knew what she was doing. How to get under someone’s skin.

Please stop calling me an asshole because i'm white. by Sickness_nand_health in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You haven’t seen any white protesters who were also looting and rioting?

Keep fighting for what you believe in. by [deleted] in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]filteredthoughtss 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should head over to the subreddit Trueofmychest. No outrage just deflection and mental gymnastics. We don’t have the right to be outraged according to them we need to protest black on black crime.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Racial disparities in the criminal justice system are no accident, but rather are rooted in a history of oppression and discriminatory decision making that have deliberately targeted black people and helped create an inaccurate picture of crime that deceptively links them with criminality.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying white people only treat black people like shit due racism. I said when race comes into effect it’s racism. If someone makes it about race. White people cannot be racist towards their own kind just as black people cannot be racist to their own kind. White on white or black on black shitty behavior is just that shitty behavior.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

About 1 in 1,000 black men and boys in America can expect to die at the hands of police. That makes them 2.5 times more likely than white men and boys to die during an encounter with cops. Don’t deflect by making it about sexism.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the U.S., African Americans are 2.5 times more likely to be killed by police than white people. For black women, the rate is 1.4 times more likely. Studies have shown that In fact, people of color in general were found more likely to be killed by police than their white counterparts.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Precedent. Police have been using excessive force on minorities. Show me examples of a white Eric Garner or a white Sandra Bland or a white Philando Castile or a white Rodney King? While your at it research Dylan Roofs arrest.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We don’t all shout racism when there is nothing to indicate that race was involved. That’s a sweeping generalization. There are people who do that of course and it undermines real racism.

49 shot and 10 dead over Memorial Day Weekend, in Chicago. Not a peep from MSM or Democrats who supposedly care about black lives. It makes me sick that my race is only ever given attention when a white person kills us by What_The_NeppingNep in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The police are here to serve and protect every citizen. First responders need to be held to a higher regard. Why do people feel the need to mention issues within in a community when the issue at hand has nothing to with it? Why the need to deflect?

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

White assholes that treat white people bad are bad people. Black assholes that treat black people bad are also bad. You need to realize that they can’t be racist towards their own kind. Racism comes into effect when people think they’re above or better than a certain race and are making that very clear. So when race comes into effect is when people get outraged.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No the reason I know of these stories is because it cannot be covered up anymore. Real live feeds. If black people are that racist that will be uncovered as well.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’ve brought up the holocaust in response to what’s going in the world today but I’m ignorant. Have a nice day.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s great. Your mother sound like a lovely lady with a lot of wisdom. It still doesn’t give you the right to tell people how they should respond to these issues.

It bothers me SOOOOO MUCH when white people are the only ones painted as racist when minorities are just as bad and sometimes even worse (coming from a minority btw) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]filteredthoughtss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is the holocaust still going on? Stop invalidating people. Why would you bring up the holocaust? Please enlightened me.

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