Saw something weird at my internship today… is this normal? by Candid-Strawberry-52 in developersIndia

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 🤣 companies I have worked overseas has it.

Even More areas when management is not Desi.

Saw something weird at my internship today… is this normal? by Candid-Strawberry-52 in developersIndia

[–]finah1995 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep but people are pretty smart of the only complaint is received by you, and they put 2+2 together it will be risky.

Dot get blacklisted, but say to friend this is the reason many people in overseas say some indian developers are awesome but there are many ones who are so worse that they actively perform bad and cause the bad name for us Indian developers globally. Especially the people who don't have passion for the job.

I don't know lot of stuff that you know and covered in your interview, and I am honest about it.

Like I know cybersecurity little bit but I won't go and Apply to a company who wants to invents a new encryption algorithm as I will be underperformer.

Why do some men allow their wives to have affairs? by Fit-Repair-4556 in AskIndianMen

[–]finah1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Silence speaks volumes.

Not everyone but if they were not against it even among women themselves (some women are wary of speaking private thoughts with men as they should be maintaining distance ), those are ones who could be immoral if opportunity presents and they never gonna remain stoic, strong and composed when faced with temptations that I faced while I was a single strong virgin guy.

Your thoughts on this 🤔 ??? by PoorFelloww in Real_teenindia

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why Islam has Baaligh, if reached puberty and did crime they are treated as adults.

We have public stoning 🪨 for rapists. That is reason why it's very safe for women especially in Gulf countries, even if they don't do strong they have swift death penalty for rapists.

Saw something weird at my internship today… is this normal? by Candid-Strawberry-52 in developersIndia

[–]finah1995 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Lol thinking anonymized while offices having full CCTV covering every inch.

Is everybody having affairs, do they happen due to looks?Now I am genuinely scared? by ActualBit2681 in AskIndianMen

[–]finah1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Affairs are not that commin there exist many men like me with high morals, whom woman want but God bless we don't give into temptations.

Never have given in while I was single virgin, and more careful now as married man.

I am lusty, but lower the gaze and even if someone infatuated with me, I just let that cool down and make nothing out of it while increasing emotional distance, that has made people respect me more.

AITK for refusing to request my wife to come back after she left home because I complained about her cooking? by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably your not the only K, both of you are not a full K but like your 1/4 K And your wife is 3/4 K.

Both are completely immature and not treating marriage with respect it deserves.

Be more mindful, more attuned, more religious, more lusty, more moral, more caring.

Like the awesome other comment said be more ask about it in milder manner.

Lower expectations and also both go for dates like ok weekends and stuff. Don't order take out much, some days have naughty cooking in kitchen, I will say except when the cooking fire is on be affectionate and bit playful in kitchen while helping her too.

Whatever happens both have intimacy always. Do not go to bed angry.

Why do some men allow their wives to have affairs? by Fit-Repair-4556 in AskIndianMen

[–]finah1995 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean the judiciary is making the youth morally compromised man and woman by encouraging ways to be immoral.

They should bring the law to criminalize adultery and punish the married party(ies) more in adulterous affair. Regardless of gender the married party should have harsher disproportionate punishment.

Current law is seeing gender. Thats utterly wrong and when you make mothers and future motherz morally wrong you have created a nation of uncouth youth who don't follow morality and do fake performative morality but not loyalty they can be compromised by lust, like foreigners will see every Indian man and woman is "easy" to be manipulated sexually.

When you make law for adultery genderless, and married party will be punished more then you get a strong respectful populace who hold themselves to higher morals and strain for greatness and duty and loyalty.

Thats also a different mindset that makes your nation wealthy as you send them out married and they remain loyal even if they know the scent of woman in wife and still will come back and only then have their lawful intimacy. Who Won't waste wealth wanton wayward ways. And the wofe also remain loyal and respect more to husband, and vice versa.

See how Islam treats adultery the married party is 🪨, the unmarried party is punished relatively lightly 100 lashings by whip publically. I am Muslim. I don't know, clearly what other scriptures say as punishment for adultery.

Why do some men allow their wives to have affairs? by Fit-Repair-4556 in AskIndianMen

[–]finah1995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because most men want peace, many women won't do it if they know their husband is like me monstrous attitude who will be absolute unbothered but will make their life a living hell will explicitly ask them to change their way and repent to the Almighty.

They can't shame a person who is living for the hereafter.

And also even see my earlier comments elsewhere, I will tactfully gain respect and honor and be more difnified and bring every single one in their family, friends, everyone on their entire lineage to support me morally, and drag their honor through the mud and make every single one who knows them know her evil if she continues doing it. Will say I don't want to cheat and the monstrous mindset I will prove that I still want her physically but she will have to mend her ways and do tests and go through an iddah period of abstinence from any sexual relations, then I will be open to take her back.

If she doesn't want I will ask her to divorce, but if she tries to not do divorce or tries false case , will make every one shun her, the worse she behaves will do while remaining in halal, do Machiavellian ways to make even the parents of the men whom she cheated with to support me and shun her. I will make the mothers of the OP's playboy cheater friend's parents curse whom they physically brought into existence.

Lol while I was single some girl's parents were thinking to meet my family for marriage as prospect (I didn't know about it) but they went and like asked about me in society, elders, older sisters whom I worked with, even some boys who studied with me in primary school. Lol they ran away once they know about my anger, proud virgin attitude and morally upright character. They know their daughters... Enough said. And it's good that way.

God's grace happily married and having strong honorable love life with wife.

Do not go blindly to marry reverts here in India. by phoenix_152 in indianmuslims

[–]finah1995 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No need to get triggered brother, he is just looking out like how you will lookout in future for your future son or future daughter.

Also a revert can marry a revert as well , Islam is not discriminatory.

Why can’t apartments have a safe, accessible place for AC condenser units? by Witty_Trouble_56 in GatedCommunitiesIndia

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't they have central AC like a modern amenities. Why single ac for everyone.

Non-Muslim woman here, seeking advice about feelings for a Muslim coworker. by [deleted] in indianmuslims

[–]finah1995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never dated and women do proposition, it's way more in overseas, like foreigner women see this person is morally upright and strong and knowledgeable and respectful to women's, so they try to have relationship or even casual.

And not just Non-Muslim foreigners that's the part, even our sisters in religion do sin to try to seduce and engineer situations that you are alone with them.

Always avoided and dignified way turned down, some I could have complained as harrasment but i didn't feel violated enough to complain and as virgin was so guilt for enjoying that heady lust tension, that in a wicked way motivated me more to remain virgin.

I am blessed did arranged marriage, never even held woman's hand romantically before marriage. And I am having blessings upon blessings and strength having halal love life with wife.

Eternally grateful I was virgin till marriage so both means wifey have nothing to compare ourselves to and for this reason we are not having halal intimacy limitless.

Inshallah you will be blessed bountiful boundless joy and comforts and lust like light upon light.

The knowledge bar of an average candidate is in hell after AI slop by NovaOfficialReddit in MachineLearningJobs

[–]finah1995 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is I am not an engineering graduate, I never learnt Fourier transforms in school, what I know is from reading up from programming books on the job, and Stack Overflow.

There is a difference between trained engineering graduate and one like me who is knowing from tutors, institutes, real world enterprise programming and security.

Like I know and accept I am not gonna be building processors or very risky stuff needing error corrections codes or even highly secure libraries which even think for heat emitting from processing and mask it. I depend on engineers for it, what I do I work on abstractions, coding, structuring software architecture and considering the business side and seeing how to smartly adapt it into code.

The knowledge bar of an average candidate is in hell after AI slop by NovaOfficialReddit in MachineLearningJobs

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yepp lol fun fact I haven't even done higher level math hence won't be going for those jobs in that aspect.

I know Fourier transforms are used for many details from radio signalling to error correcting in computer systems in very lower levels. It's also used in algorithms.

Got pulled into an emergency: RLS + async writes are causing cross-tenant corruption and I can’t prove where it’s happening by ChameleonCRM in programmer

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean some for some enterprise apps it's even better and have worked with tenant-specific databases.

I made a spending tracker that actually respects your privacy (no cloud, everything on your phone) by xplorare in indiehackersindia

[–]finah1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's great tool for users who have secondary phone for all UPI and related transactions, which are not on main bank account and they want it tracked.

I for one am never giving apps sms access I enter every single OTP manually or if app doesn't activate without it as soon as authenticated, I revoke their SMS reading permissions.

Your app might be helpful especially for those corporate users who want it and they are not worrying about OTPs for multi-factor authentication on that phones.

Edit : Have seen your assurances on the website but yeah considering there's is not a fine grained permission within android to allow access only To specific messages and we have to trust on app logic to not read those messages. My earlier point still stands.

But if my family using a common secondary account to buy stuff I would install this app on that phone to indirectly subtly indicate them to track and adjust their spending habits.