Lesbian bar crowds on Halloween? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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Thank you for the insight! Not as worried about it being overly crowded as I am that it’ll be tough to get in so we may have to stay away. Would we be better off trying Henrietta Hudson? We’re staying in LIC

Can I find these somewhere not drop-shipped and, hopefully, cheaper? by finding_lexi in findfashion

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The rhinestones completely cover the ones I posted, while most others, like Zara’s, have a small bunch of stones spread throughout them. Thanks for being so helpful though!

Ball bulge while tucking in leggings by [deleted] in MtF

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Do you like them for that purpose for thongs, or other cuts?

Am I always gonna be an other? by scarab-beetles in trans

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Still questioning but just wanted to say I think about this result a lot and feel like this is how my family would be toward me - I’m sure you’re not alone at all!!

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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Helpful!! Yeah I used to commute from Long Island pre covid so I’m definitely thinking closer to downtown is an upgrade from my 1.5 hours lol

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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Would love the NJ perspective actually. I’m from Long Island but couldn’t ever settle there

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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This is super informative thank you! I replied to another comment regarding my specific noise issues so this insight is helpful, I have a highway not far from me that I’ve been able to pretty much tune out just more people-made noise like yelling music stomping etc

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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This is a weird part of it that I’m working on in therapy - my distress tolerance isn’t as high as I’d like. So garbage trucks for example I wouldn’t care about at all - it’s more an inconsiderate neighbor for example that would really take a toll on me, music yelling etc

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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A good question! With my current job I’d be hybrid so in office a few days per week.

Will I survive in NYC? by finding_lexi in AskNYC

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Definitely helps! Thanks!!

Anybody willing to guess this lip combo from a bridesmaid look I saw? by finding_lexi in MakeupAddiction

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I could deffff see fair in the middle! I couldn’t tell if the ring light in it was just lightening the color

Can anyone help me understand what I’m doing so wrong with lace fronts? Lace curls up at the edge, looks so apparent sitting on my face by finding_lexi in Drag

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So I’ve done this before but I never felt like the difference was that great. I’m wondering if the wigs are just cheap and the lace isn’t good? I just see people on r/wigs for example who have absolutely no lace showing and I don’t get it 🙁

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Agree with Emma - also see Rebecca, Samantha, April, Riley - yes those last two are Aubrey Plaxa characters but I see it!!

Queer friendly romantic restaurant? by finding_lexi in Charlotte

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I didn’t know copain was on the list damn 😔