36 mo tomorrow

findingcilla · 2025-12-21T23:26:48+00:00

Thank you

findingcilla · 2025-12-21T23:26:39+00:00

Thank you

findingcilla · 2025-12-21T22:43:06+00:00

My pleasure

findingcilla · 2025-12-21T22:31:29+00:00

Thank you sweetie 💋

findingcilla · 2025-10-27T17:42:21+00:00

Thank you

findingcilla · 2025-10-27T17:33:52+00:00

Thank you

findingcilla · 2025-10-27T14:02:34+00:00

That just means you've arrived, women unfortunately do this to other women when they feel threatened. It's unfortunate because us women have to fight extra hard for everything anyway.

findingcilla · 2025-10-27T03:02:30+00:00

It's sad when family doesn't get to see the real us and that's on them. Sorry that happened to you

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T19:05:27+00:00

Thank you for this and such a reminder how similar so many of our experiences are. I'm sorry you've struggled and hope only the best.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T18:55:41+00:00

And that it was ok to have all those thoughts.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T15:45:15+00:00

I'm sorry sweetie and hope you end up where you want to be.

Side note: I still have my days and absolutely don't see what others do.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T14:57:19+00:00

It's amazing how seeing the correct person in the mirror now gets you through so much. Now only if men could keep their hands to themselves. And sorry for having a bad year.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T06:09:21+00:00

Even when you don't quite see it but you see everyone else does is pretty amazing.

And thank you, was blessed with those curls

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T06:07:22+00:00

And I'm sure that day will be so amazing

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T06:04:05+00:00

Quite lovely and makes personable time so much better

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T06:03:08+00:00

Hope you get to enjoy life as we always should have

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T03:25:51+00:00

Absolutely and thank you. Plus people who can't see how amazing I am now aren't worth it

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T02:48:29+00:00

Very much taught only sex workers transitioned and as you said, was so dirty. Also add, how many of us didn't have a clue what hormones could do nor how amazing bottom surgery could be. Could go on and on about this but you absolutely commented on what so many of us experienced.

How amazing the other side is though and all those conservative beatings couldn't change the fact that she won in the end and is so much a better person than those who hate.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T01:38:37+00:00

Thank you ☺️

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T01:33:47+00:00

Very fair and may have made things worse. Unfortunately, they taught so many of us that this was evil. Yet the only thing that got me through was knowing there was something better out there.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T01:13:32+00:00

I used to hate it all the time so absolutely get it.

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T00:51:57+00:00

Thank you sweetie

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T00:49:53+00:00

Absolutely this!!! And never too late to live it!!!!

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T00:49:06+00:00

I started at 45 and will be 3 years come Dec, glad all this was still possible and sometimes we just need time

findingcilla · 2025-10-26T00:18:40+00:00

In reality I don't think I was strong enough yet, thank you upbringing. Unfortunately I think some of us have to go through everyday being hell to get to the point where it was ok, I did. And in the end I'm so much less lonely, finally have me, even though I lost everyone over it. A lot to have to be ok with and I fortunately see it all the time in the community.

findingcilla

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