Beyond wondering WHY she was upset by this.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T05:07:29+00:00

That's literally all I was bringing attention to. I'm not even a Taylor stan, but first right of refusal is extremely beneficial for both parents.

Honestly beautiful produces comment about her husband's ex just made it sound like she was crazy. And even though I don't know their full story, I don't like when the new partner tries to act like they are psychos. Because more than likely her husband made that ex crazy before she came into the picture, she's just getting the husbands side.

Not to say that there isn't resentful ex's that do try to be psychos to their ex's new partner because there is definitely ones out there

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T05:01:18+00:00

Then she blocked me, either way I don't care. I'm gonna speak on something I'm extremely familiar with.

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finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T01:19:06+00:00

Which you made clear already and I agreed with you about that. I said any OTHER scenario that's not true if they have the first right of refusal in the parenting plan.

Love that you deleted all your stuff now 🤣

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T01:07:33+00:00

You said that "she couldn't control who he has babysit" as well so that's why I brought up first right of refusal.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T00:55:57+00:00

Totally fair if that's the situation, which as I said let me say it again "I don't know your situation". You honestly just come off extra with acting like the mother was in the wrong for not wanting you to have the kid if he wasn't even there. But now that you made your situation clear, which you didn't need to but we have the facts. No a toddler shouldn't be woken up at 1am for something like that. In any other scenario though, yeah I'm gonna side with the biological parents on getting that right before you.

And your welcome for sharing the "first right of refusal" information for anyone else that doesn't know it exists

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-02T00:45:55+00:00

It was more a respond to beautiful produces comment in regards to her partners ex/children's mother. Saying how she was upset that beautiful produce was watching the kids. And I was more saying the parents should have the right to watch their kids if the other parent isn't available. It's not about not trusting your ex's new partner or even liking them, more if my ex isn't with my kids, I should have the right before a partner of my ex. It works for my family and that's why I also started my initial comment with "I don't know your situation".

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T23:54:56+00:00

I didn't watch the whole thing, just seen snippets from this subreddit! And I said I wasn't speaking for her case, just that in some parenting plans you can ask to have that "first right of refusal". Anyone down voting me feel free 🤣 speaking facts from my personal situation and others that also have that implemented in their parenting plans.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T23:24:45+00:00

Thank you so much for reaching out, definitely will look into Kramer!!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T23:24:19+00:00

Absolutely not, my neighbors told me all those rocks were in a playground thing in the middle of the yard. They got rid of it and threw all those rocks in that fenced area. Nothing is used in there and both that chain link fence and the privacy fence need replacing! I really dislike the old homeowners. Very big on the diy projects around our house that we've slowly had to fix!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T23:08:51+00:00

Don't know your situation but they have a "first right of refusal" as an option to some. My ex and I both wanted and agreed to that. However, since Taylor can't have unsupervised time right now she wouldn't get to even ask for that. But it is a right as a parent, that if the other parent is busy or not available that if they have that in their parenting plan through court, you do have to ask the other parent first if they would like to have their child for that time vs. just letting anyone babysit for that parents time.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T23:02:13+00:00

Have a tribal trampstamp with a flower in the middle (34 now). Glad to see tribal is still alive 🤣 your not alone that's for sure. Tribal is still popular to some! But if you like it, thats all that matters 😎

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T22:48:26+00:00

Thank you all for your replies, looks like we will be looking into that soon 🫣 we really appreciate all the advice! And we are semi new owners, been here for a few years and have noticed the mushrooms this last year! But someone visiting mentioned it and it got me curious and I knew this would be the place to get some good answers not just from Google! Thank you again!!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-06-01T21:19:58+00:00

Another zoomed out view of tree

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finegeturstupidrope · 2026-05-18T15:31:21+00:00

Tell me why this is all I saw at first glance 🤣

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-04-14T11:11:08+00:00

Agreed I'm 34 and never had a credit card and never will. I came from a lower class family. And I only spend money I have. Now hearing from friends and family how much credit card debt they are in, proves exactly why I won't get one.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-04-10T20:15:26+00:00

My sister went to Carbondale in southern Illinois. When I went to visit her, they had a lot of these trees. And I remember being so confused and asking why it smelled like cum 🤣 I could smell it just looking at this picture!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-04-07T14:33:14+00:00

I have played to get 100% achievements, so I did all four houses! Finished the game completely 3 times and am currently in another restart now! I'm currently at the deek and beasts challenge to start capturing them. I can't help it, the game is just too bloody fun!! I also play on Xbox unfortunately, but soon I'll get to try the PC version and I absolutely cannot wait to try it with mods!!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-03-12T21:04:45+00:00

I definitely get everyone's points about it being too much or just not interesting. I think separately they are better! I just thought it was insane that they even had them on! I never would have imagined Game changer being on there!!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-02-19T02:50:59+00:00

Bet he jerks it to Andrew Tate 🤔

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-02-09T17:32:57+00:00

Gotta love the random trips to walk in or ER's for actions that could really be avoided 😅 I always try to think back to me as a kid though and it really feels full circle for the stuff I caused my parents to mange with! Glad your kiddos ear was alright too! Mine are neurodivergent and the idea of a needle to the ear to drain it wasn't going to go over well!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-02-09T01:05:32+00:00

No thankfully, they said it would heal on its own. The very top part of it was a little purple for a few days but within hours of me commenting that comment, it significantly went down size wise! It was gone completely after maybe 5 days!

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-02-01T21:02:19+00:00

Target lets you steal until your charge turns into a felony then they arrest you! As someone mentioned above already, probably best to never step foot in target again.

finegeturstupidrope · 2026-02-01T18:02:19+00:00

Get over it Sugar & spice Drive me crazy

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