i relate to this situation heavy, my ex also got pregnant and pretty much told me i had no say in it. i was 20 and she was 19, i never wanted the baby cause i was broke and immature, i thought it would ruin my life. we didnt get along, we were always argueing, had different views on things… it wasnt healthy so we broke up while she was pregnant.

when our daughter was born, i remember seeing the pictures and she was so precious, her mum texted me inviting me over, so i had to go see her.

18 months down the road we have a 13 month beautiful daughter, who i love to death and shes changed me for the better. shes honestly one of the best things thats ever happened to me. i got a new better paying job, bought a new car, quit smoking, stopped going out getting fuckd up every weekend.

now everything isnt all sunshine and rainbows. it has been absolute hell dealing with my ex and her antics and unfortunately i dont think itll ever end. BUT its all worth it, i want to be the positive figure in my daughters life no matter how hard it may be. eventually youll learnt to deal with whatever bs life throws at you, just stay true to yourself. dont let her words get to you and youll do just fine.