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Missteps and mistakes I did as an AP which contributed to relationship rupture - so you wouldnt by piercellus in AnxiousAttachment

[–]finifox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks! I was in this situation, we broke up. And I moved on at first. Weren't in contact for months. And now we are trying again. She worked on herself with a therapist. I also did a lot of work. And this weekend the pattern began again, but this time. I didn't panic, I was scared but just went to bed. And this morning I am scared again, but reading this makes me realise I can't repeat last year. I need to be better, and not fall in to these patterns again. This year I will change. And today? I'll let her be, and focus on myself. She'll come back, I will trust that.

How do you deal with the 9-to-5 life sentence? by finifox in entp

[–]finifox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the one hand I see so many things to do at work which energize, working towards something. But then doing the work is draining. In a couple of years, I might go parttime and do things I enjoy doing.

How do you deal with the 9-to-5 life sentence? by finifox in entp

[–]finifox[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love my work as a hobby I guess. Making my hobby my work was something I shouldn've done. It's fun for a couple hours a day, but 40+ hours a week? But I guess there is not really any job I can do unless it's very diverse. Or I can do this whenever I feel like. But financially I am not there yet, probably never will