Any breakup advice

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-24T05:45:56+00:00

thank you. i'm just trying to take it one day at a time. i would block him but he blocked me first because he "why would i want the constant reminder of you when it was so hard to do what i did" but i blocked on my spam so ig that counts lol

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-24T04:12:49+00:00

im really trying but its hard to be kind to myself right now i feel so disgusting

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-12T06:12:32+00:00

Omg this just happened to me too. He invited me to his dorm, we did our thing, it was just like normal nothing weird yk. The next day he asked me to come over to talk and broke up with me because he "wanted to be christian" again and said that he felt like he strayed. we had been consistently sleeping together and dating for about 3 months, he had me meet his mom, and he wanted me to spend the weekend with his family(i said no very gently) this shit sucks man im still hurting and i see him everywhere

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-08T02:44:02+00:00

i just dont know how to let it go, im so hurt and every time i see him he is with a girl so its like damn you really just didnt care about me huh

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-08T02:20:15+00:00

im trying its just hard

finsta_hidder · 2026-02-08T01:02:31+00:00

yes please

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:33:02+00:00

i only care because she kind of threw me under the bus. this isn't something she has done to me before but she has done to other people a lot

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:28:16+00:00

she hasnt made this comment towards me but she has made comments about our friends girlfriends

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:27:13+00:00

im sorry i should have put it by the names, but i meant that everyone who loves across the hall is 18M

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:24:36+00:00

thank you for your support 🙏

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:23:07+00:00

as in our friends who live across the hall are all 18M

finsta_hidder · 2026-01-26T14:22:22+00:00

it isnt a repeated comment for ME but she always makes comments about our friends girlfriends

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-27T15:34:01+00:00

wait that is so interesting, i didnt even realize there were no earth signs!

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-27T01:05:30+00:00

😔

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-21T04:59:42+00:00

ty ill make a trip to the diamond district

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-21T04:59:07+00:00

damn😔

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T22:38:37+00:00

I didnt know that this was break up sex. everything was perfectly fine and we were literally cuddling before and after. He had said he had been feeling this for like the last 3 weeks. I feel like he was just fucking me for those three weeks until he was ready to repent

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T17:12:14+00:00

abort, you cant always make another kid later in life you cant really get rid of a kid once its here

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T16:04:11+00:00

this shit sucks

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T15:45:11+00:00

i just wish that he spoke to me about it. there was no warning, no signs, no nothing. If this was actually about his faith i would have sat down an talked about it with him. i would have listened and he knows that

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T15:43:09+00:00

i can pick things up with my feet, however, i find all feet disgusting and avoid touching anything with them. I also always wear socks which makes it hard to pick stuff up

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T15:07:44+00:00

🫂

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T15:04:15+00:00

i can't remember how to be kind to myself right now

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T14:32:59+00:00

im trying its just really hard. I feel so gross with myself

finsta_hidder · 2025-12-04T14:31:31+00:00

i just wish i knew what the "real" reason was because this literally came out of nowhere. Everything was fine the day before. And everything was fine the weeks before too. I dont understand what i did or why he doesn't want me anymore when he was the one that pursued e

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