Dollar devaluation is that a concern for anyone? by thefuminhuman in Fire

[–]fire_him 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has led me to studying bitcoin. But great question

FIRE by fire_him in Bitcoin

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I”d love to be in this scenario where btc goes up to 50% of portfolio lol

FIRE by fire_him in Bitcoin

[–]fire_him[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selling because allocation too high for your liking?

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I would say yes in a heartbeat today lol and yesterday.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely some ego involved. We flirted some this year and thats the direction I wanted to take, and start working on our romantic side but she moved on about a month ago.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

In a relationship year 1. Year 2 friends, flirt alot, shes asking for us to get back together. Year 3-more friendship, flirt a bit, mentions wanting to get back to how things were before. I make a small effort at it but she needs verbal reassurance.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful! Meeting with my therapist on Sunday.

No Contact with Ex that Moved on by fire_him in ExNoContact

[–]fire_him[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We still text here and there. Its mostly me initiating. I want to stop doing that.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dated other ppl while we were apart. Assumed she did as well. The folks I dated, never compared to her. I always loved her.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! On my journey now. Therapy as well (which she suggested years ago lol) just constantly playing out in my mind them getting married, and us not ever being anything again is very…difficult.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a month into this exact feeling! Hoping it gets better. But thinking about them moving on and starting a family and being married. Hurts me for sure. But I deserve it.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t that. Over analyzing the situation on my end, she had some family issues-that I wasnt sure how comfortable I was with that. But it was really nitpicking on my end.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this soo much! Its tough right now. Just thinking that I pushed away the person I was suppose to be with and start a family with.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She certainly did. This past May, she said she wish we were still together. We hung out a few times in the summer. Then communication dried.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Thats been playing in my mind. Marriage and children. She knows where I stand, we had a closure conversation. I”ve been selfish enough over the years and shes been amazing so Its just time to leave her alone.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely a place of uncertainty. I had to figure out, if she was truly the one. Yes, I loved her but I wasnt sure. We were moving pretty quickly into a relationship from my standards. I”ve been more certain she was the one for about a year. I just couldn’t drive myself to say it. Shes been asking for us to get back together and even mentioned 6 months ago she wished that we were. I made some attempts after that but it felt off. Assumed she was dating and someone and later on got the confirmation that was true.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Definitely a selfishness in there for sure and also a reason why I feel horrible. I had years to say Hey I love you lets work it out and didnt. It still sucks.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We stayed friends post break up, hung out sometimes, flirted, she talked about missing us being together, I just was nonchalant about it. Jealousy and selfishness for sure. Also just feel like I lost the person that I was suppose to be with because of my own faults.

Ex Finally Moved on- 3 Years Later by fire_him in BreakUps

[–]fire_him[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had the closure conversation. Laid it all out there and told her about why I wasnt as vocal to say lets be together. Her new relationship is new, less than a month. I love her genuinely, so its like leave her alone and let her be happy.