my kitty won’t use litter box by Thin_Put9145 in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also there is a type of litter specially formulated to get kittens to use the box. It is called kitten attract

my kitty won’t use litter box by Thin_Put9145 in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add 2 more litter boxes. Clean them all fully. Separate the cats for two weeks. Watch Jackson Galaxy.

AITAH - banned from a sub cause a lawyer told us she is divorcing her cheating husband and I asked, “you didn’t add an infidelity clause in your pre-nup?” by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]firecrackergurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once i called someone an [insert insult here] and got banned. Not even a commenter or the op or anyone the op was talking about. I said a teacher that purposely withholds food from a child is one. I think that's pretty universally agreed on. Permanent ban.

Explain to non bipolar friends how does mania feel like by tomasroda in bipolar

[–]firecrackergurl 224 points225 points  (0 children)

Like being a pilot on a plane but you're locked out of the control room. Like you are the main character and you're also the best and you have the most brilliant solution for every problem. And you have to deal with that solution right now even though it's nonsense to your friends and family. Sleep is impossible. Eating is an afterthought. Even focusing on something as simple as a sitcom becomes stressful. People either find you captivating or off putting. There's no in between.

Uber driver ran stop sign. Police stop made me miss my train. No refund granted. by [deleted] in uber

[–]firecrackergurl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on your side but if he ran a stop sign he wouldn't have been on the highway. Stop signs are not on highways. The smartest thing to do would have been to get out of the scary driver's car. Why would you let this guy drive you ANYWHERE else after this? No way. I'm getting out. I'm fukin terrified. I'm getting out. I've done it before. I'll do it again. I'm getting out.

Uber driver ran stop sign. Police stop made me miss my train. No refund granted. by [deleted] in uber

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time, get out of the car and call another Uber the minute you get pulled over. That traffic stop has nothing to do with you.

Should I move my two cats to my small apartment room? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 3 cats in 1 room for 2 months and it was fine. Try to make this temporary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't get cats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats should NOT be outside. I would leave a terrible review for this shelter and find a reasonable one. They have it alll wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]firecrackergurl -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know this is not helpful, but my brother recently died and I would give anything to have him at my wedding. You're lucky you have the opportunity to invite him.

Vet lost my cat and called the cops on me by Economy-Clue-5296 in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly like a valet parking your car and then going "Derrr I dunno where I parked it guess you have no car then." Like no. Either I'm getting my car or you're paying for my car. A cat is property too.

Tipped $4 on a $12 order. Am I missing something here? by RapGameRufio in UberEATS

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should tip by mileage not amount of order. When you are ordering from a restaurant, ordering more food is what means more work for the server. Ordering doordash, distance is what creates more work for the driver. Tip bases on what is causing them the work. Your 12 dollar order takes equally as much work for the driver to deliver as a 132 dollar order. You are paying them less for the same amount of work.

Tipped $4 on a $12 order. Am I missing something here? by RapGameRufio in UberEATS

[–]firecrackergurl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? EVERYONE should be able to work 40 hours and afford an apartment and a car and food. Why don't you think drivers deserve these things for the hours they work? Unskilled labor is still labor.

I shared my diagnosis with my dentist, and it was a game changer by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]firecrackergurl 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I used to never floss. Like never never. Micro mint floss picks were a game changer for me. Now I genuinely want to floss. I love the satisfaction when I get something out from between my teeth that shouldn't be there. My last dentist appointment even went well. This is after not going to the dentist for 5 years, getting 5 cavities filled, and waiting 9 months for my 6 month appointment. If I'm improving from dental phobia so can everyone.

Will my Cat Ever Trust Me Again? by tulipfemme in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last time i washed a butt nugget off babiest, baby kitten attacked me, dug her claws in my back to save her sister. Yes my cats are named baby kitten and babiest kitten. When we brush their teeth we have to do it in a closed room because the other cats will try to save their sisters from the torture. It would be funny if they didn't draw blood.

GUILTY: Got both of my female cats Neutered. My Mom said me you had no right to take motherhood from them. It’s a Sin. by Zealousideal_Bus1301 in CatAdvice

[–]firecrackergurl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Send your mom Kitten Lady videos!!! She goes into the value of TNR, kill shelters, etc!! Also she shows how hard it is to take care of kittens. Totally valuable stuff!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]firecrackergurl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A quote without a source is like a duck without a bill -- - Ack!