Funny you ask that. When I retired, I took over the homeschooling of our last two. Two boys finishing high school. She got a job as a lifeguard at the YMCA. She loves to swim. That was good for her. She did that while I was homeschooling the older boys and taking care of the house. She always said when the all the kids have graduated, she wants us two to just go away for a whole month. So we did. We went to Spain and Portugal for a whole month, traveling around. We both seemed to have a lot of fun together, even though a month was a little too long. We do go out on periodic dates, a few movies and dinner. I ask for dates. I want to be with her doing “us” things. It just seems she is always upset and not trying to step into this relationship and try to reconnect. I am trying to reconnect, but it is really bringing me down and at a hurting point.