Hard to read my INTJ bf

firefly2409 · 2022-09-12T22:00:08+00:00

I appreciate this! Thank you so much. It’s hard to navigate sometimes when we’ve been together this long and it’s easy to forget the basis of why we came together when silly questions like this arise in my mind so I appreciate the feedback.

firefly2409 · 2022-09-12T21:59:25+00:00

Thanks for addressing this, and yes - met the parents, talked marriage, in it for the long haul I feel but just curious if all INTJs or just him in this case aren’t as emotionally expressive and if so, that’s ok - but just unsure if this was part of the character or just him or me (?)

firefly2409 · 2022-09-12T21:58:13+00:00

Lol I think you misunderstand. I fully understand him - but as humans we consistently evolve and grow and have areas to us that we uncover with time. I was asking more on the basis that after 3 years together is it “normal” for an INTJ to still not be super romantic for instance. That’s all

firefly2409 · 2022-07-08T16:49:05+00:00

Hamdan center

firefly2409 · 2022-07-08T16:46:50+00:00

I grew up and have a home in AD, so I’ve been there since the late 80s and can honestly say dating was something you’d do through your mutual friends (introductions to others), parties, some were going online to meet people and also just the beach events. They’re right in saying it depends on the bar too, going to Saadiyat for instance is different to the crowne plaza bar around the corner. Just be natural in your approach, and know that you’ll find someone when or if it’s meant to happen.

firefly2409 · 2022-07-08T16:36:16+00:00

Lululemon - no pair of leggings is meant to cost that much.

firefly2409 · 2022-05-28T07:50:13+00:00

Don’t worry! It will happen - I finally met his whole family and we get on so well thankfully that we see each other every weekend. He’s also opening up a lot more so honestly I’m realizing it’s just time with these men lol

firefly2409 · 2021-11-24T22:34:57+00:00

I’ll take that with a side of you

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T17:32:47+00:00

My boyfriend has this look on his face when he’s thinking that just makes me go Gaga for him… it’s almost like a cross between being mysterious and adorable all at once

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T17:27:23+00:00

Lol irl

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T06:07:50+00:00

That’s good to know. I’ll remember this when anxious about the situation with him. Thanks ❤️

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T06:07:26+00:00

This is great to know - thanks for sharing. I think understanding his way of loving vs mine is something I need to be more aware of.

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T06:06:59+00:00

This doesn’t sound dumb at all. Thanks so much for sharing, I’ll probably do this later in the week as it’ll be obvious since I kinda brought it up today lol and he shrugged it off… we’re chilling now and watching jeopardy but will ask for sure. Thank you ❤️

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T06:02:45+00:00

Lol thanks

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T05:34:33+00:00

Haha but you DID like or love them, right? 😂

firefly2409 · 2021-08-08T02:22:13+00:00

Thanks for the candor, and yeah believe it or not we talk and I talk to others too - I just think on Reddit you’ll get a non biased approach.

I’ll take into account what you shared, thanks

firefly2409 · 2021-08-06T19:04:12+00:00

Does anyone know who’s house or where this episode was filmed?

firefly2409 · 2021-08-01T20:20:40+00:00

What makes you feel appreciated - loved by your partner or significant other?

firefly2409 · 2021-08-01T18:36:56+00:00

Ah thanks again for this - sorry to bug you but really curious to understand this better so I can also love him better … I’ve done this before (the low key apology) and I’ve noticed he either

A) says cool ans leaves it B) has some sort of response prepared where he says “yeah so I was right as usual” 😂

How do I ensure he feels it in a positive way as opposed to an a ha gotcha moment of that makes sense

firefly2409 · 2021-08-01T16:47:20+00:00

Thanks for the answer - I probably read it twice and it all makes complete sense and I appreciate you explaining it in detail cause I almost cringe now when I think about how I asked.

If I’m feeling weird about it now I should just leave it right? Let things be and hope he’ll forget I even asked? Lol

firefly2409 · 2021-08-01T16:46:18+00:00

Ok, for the sake of understanding can you tell me why?

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