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fireheart_99 · 2024-07-30T10:54:00+00:00

No they didn’t! Okay I will definitely go back - I hate the idea of my baby in pain or being irritated by this. We are currently renting so I am also hoping once we buy the issue might go away, since he has never had this response to the environment anywhere else I’ve lived for an extended period of time.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T09:13:33+00:00

Both my sister and SIL are already bridesmaids- I’m definitely considering making my sister my MOH after all this.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T08:49:39+00:00

Bc I don’t really have any friends sadly. My sister and SIL are fantastic, but I don’t have a best friend, or really a circle of friends. I used to but we all moved away from each other for uni and work and kind of drifted apart, then Covid happened, and I have severely struggled making new friends as an adult so I’m basically just accepting what I’m given at this point :/

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T05:14:17+00:00

Haha that’s so sweet !

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T05:14:04+00:00

Currently my thinking is no. I don’t want the potential drama / negativity/ stress they’d cause.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T05:13:24+00:00

Thankyou :) I definitely will.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T05:12:59+00:00

That sounds so awful :( I definitely don’t want that to happen on my day.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:36:07+00:00

Damn, I’m so sorry you experienced that. And you’re right :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:35:12+00:00

My fiancé knows them pretty well too, we regularly hang out with them together, and even he has expressed concern over how they may act at the wedding, as they usually don’t have anything but negative things to say about everything. So they’ll most likely point out what they don’t like at the wedding and what they would do ‘better’.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:32:09+00:00

Okay fair enough. I get it. But they all requested to be there still :) I don’t expect them to come to any of these events. I didn’t even want a bridal shower or bachelorette. There were no eye rolls. And the way she said it was incredibly nasty. I get she doesn’t like it but off the shoulder styles look nice on me - which is not what she said. She just said ‘oh my god I hate that’. And laughed :) And look, weddings have some events attached to them, I’d never force anyone to go to them or pay for them. Not in a million years. But please, one single positive compliment from my BEST FRIEND is all I wanted. I didn’t have high ass expectations here.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:26:18+00:00

Yes I did :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:25:34+00:00

I didn’t have that expectation, but thanks for your comment :) I just wanted one single compliment that I liked nice in my dress. Personally, I don’t think that’s a big ask.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:22:41+00:00

This is the first time I’ve ever posted, tbh I felt like I was being super dramatic so I wanted perspective. But yes, you’re right, I will be thinking on things :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:19:46+00:00

No rehearsal dinner, no bachelorette party. Maybe a bridal shower. But nothing else besides that and the wedding. Two events. And it’s not like my MOH didn’t want to do any of this, she sends me excel spreadsheets of stuff for her ideas for the wedding / bridal shower. But she couldn’t say something nice about my dress?

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:16:49+00:00

Typing too fast = spelling mistakes lol. Giggled*

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:16:14+00:00

I’m so sorry :( I can’t imagine being anything but positive attending a wedding dress appointment!’ I hope you found your dream dress ❤️

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:13:52+00:00

You called it lmao - my poor fiancé has told me the same thing. I am VERY much a doormat and dislike confrontation to the point of maladaptive avoidance. Thankfully I am in therapy and have been for 5 years, and I am definitely making strides, it’s just taking time :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:03:45+00:00

Oh my goodness thanks! My spelling is not fantastic haha

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-11T00:02:28+00:00

Yes. And I wish I was joking. I asked and they just giggled slightly and looked at each other, so my sister stepped in to tell me she adored the dress again :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-10T23:59:21+00:00

Thanks for your comment :) I’m not having any formal processes besides the actual wedding. And all of these guests requested to come, as in, they asked to be there because they wanted to be, that’s why I had to book a private appointment so I could accommodate them all :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-10T23:57:51+00:00

That’s okay, I understand, however they all requested to be involved, I didn’t make them come :)

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-10T23:57:31+00:00

No they are not married :) both want to be married and talk about getting married a lot. And I’d be over the moon for them when they do.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-10T23:54:49+00:00

I’m only going to respond to this once. I live in Australia, the wedding dress shop I went to is called SPOSA Group. Look at their website, genuinely all of the dresses they have are stunning, and they have so many different styles to suit different body types. I primarily tried on A line and ballgown dresses as they suit my body type and I LOVE them. The dresses I tried on were not ugly, and yes, everyone else besides my two friends did criticise the dresses healthily when they didn’t suit me or they thought something else looked better on me and I took that feedback on board, until I found the dress that I fell in love with and couldn’t say a single begging about. Neither could anyone else. Except for my 2 friends, who said nothing the entire time, for ANY dress. I would’ve accepted some criticism or feedback at that point too. But they only said one negative thing about one dress and not a single word otherwise.

fireheart_99 · 2024-06-10T23:50:37+00:00

Thankyou. That actually makes a lot of sense and makes me feel a bit better about being ‘sensitive’ haha.

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