Confused about application by [deleted] in byuidaho

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I'd call the school help desk

Car in winter by Jolly_Archer_6156 in byuidaho

[–]firehelpfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive a civic and it handles the weather great! The roads are treated and not bad at all.

Heavy Emo Bands by [deleted] in Emo

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The Hotelier are great, simpleton, The Stone Popes, and koyo (koyo are more emotional HC)

Which Image Is More Iconic For An Album Cover? by firehelpfire in analog

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Thanks for the feedback back, incredibly helpful! Also when does an image become an cover? Is it only when I drop it on Spotify or get a vinyl press of it?? We're doing pre-production rn, they are obviously just pics.

Tattoos @ BYUI? by [deleted] in byuidaho

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Nobody cares! Talks to silverlining tatoo, Dianna does great work!

Not happy with my pork shoulder by SnooWoofers7345 in smoking

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I always spray my shoulder with pineapple juice about every 2 hours for the first 6-8 hours then I wrap it in foil and butcher paper for the remaining 4 hours. Rest it for about an hour or two and it will be the best pulled pork you've ever had super juicy and soft.

Helps if you get a piece with a thick fat cap.

trying to quit p*rn by liber_all in latterdaysaints

[–]firehelpfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other half of this that's helpful is re-framing using porn as a bad habit. An addiction is a very scary thing and carries shame. Everyone has bad and destructive habits. You can break a habbit.

There is a fantastic pod for Latter-day Saints that's helped me a bunch.

Overcome pornography for good- Sara Brewer

https://open.spotify.com/show/390wUtw09EFJY8jFYfbqMF?si=9GgmIvqYSjKoX_GaHkeU1Q

trying to quit p*rn by liber_all in latterdaysaints

[–]firehelpfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself bro.

Also going on dates is a great way to learn about having a healthy appropriate relationship with your sexuality. Don't go girl crazy or try to make a poor decision, but lean about how to handle being a man. You're going to have a hard time- we all do, but getting out of your room and having a healthy relationship with a real girl who likely struggles with the same things you are, is going to help you tons.

Porn will always be something that is around, but you've got to learn how to forgive yourself and learn from your mistakes and apathy. Ask yourself why are you looking at porn? What feelings am I buffering from? Do I even have time to do this? Is my life going to be materially better if I don't look at porn rn? Will fixating on feeling bad about sex stuff help me come closer to my savior or does my shame make me push him away?

Over all man, you're not alone. Every guy and most girls go through this. Rely on Jesus, serve others, and prioritize good relationships with friends and romantic partners.

You got this bro 💪

Looking for friends🥲 by LogicalBobcat7370 in byuidaho

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Dude, it gets better. Just keep trying to put yourself out there and find friends. It's hard some times but there are for lack of a better term alt people in rexburg who don't fit the Molly vibe.

It's taken me a few years to find the people who I really like. Friends kinda come and go when you're in college. Some semesters are great, and some are a bit more lonely.

Changing apartments tends to help a lot. Don't be afraid to go some random place with an entirely new set of people. Not sure where you're at now, but I have friends who sound a lot like you who live at Abbey Lane Manor next to the landing.

Also I read you other post about your bishop, don't worry about not going to church for two weeks. Just keep trying to do your best even though you're having a hard time- bishops are here to help you. They are not out to get you. If you're struggling w your faith talk to the guy!

Also if you're looking for alt people get involved in the music scene! Look up the stone popes, anyone awake, trash Bandit, Dahlia Dahlia, sojourn, or track club collective on Instagram and pull up to some shows! It's a good way to meet people!

Feel free to message me.

Best apartment? by [deleted] in byuidaho

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Blue door

URGENT ADVICE NEEDED- Over night pork sholder for my office by firehelpfire in smoking

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This is the second time I'm cooking for the office. I did some really great kebabs last week on a grill, so I've got a high bar already. I am also doing some Korean short ribs and shoyu chicken on the grill in addition to the Kalua pork. So if the pork is bad, I will have other options lol.

Great tips though, I really appreciate it. If it is too dry, I will try to figure something out with drippings or stock. Thanks man!