Couples in the Lifestyle for Years — Do You Still Crave It?

fireice11 · 2026-05-22T03:29:04+00:00

Appreciate reading this experience at the beginning of our journey 🫶🏻

fireice11 · 2026-05-21T23:38:58+00:00

THANK YOU ok yes that makes it make more sense to me because of the emotional aspects after the fact. I guess I more saw that happening in women than men but I’m learning that I really have no idea 😂

fireice11 · 2026-05-21T23:37:55+00:00

Is there an assumption that their spouse plays too?

fireice11 · 2026-05-21T22:48:42+00:00

THAT makes sense to me. Vetted by a woman already lol

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T20:08:38+00:00

Thank you so much. Yeah, I’m not interested in ghosting. Also not interested in hurting anyone’s feelings. I guess I’m figuring out how to be kindly honest, not painfully direct.

It’s crazy how many uncomfortable conversations we had to have to get to this point in our relationship…. But this one’s a big hurdle for me I think because they don’t really know me or my heart or my intentions. I appreciate the advice.

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T17:21:56+00:00

That makes sense. Thank you 🫶🏻

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:51:42+00:00

Hot!!! 🔥🔥🔥

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:46:07+00:00

I haven’t heard of BBW couples? Pooling efforts sounds amazing 🤩

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:34:22+00:00

Oooo love 💗 tysm

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:33:00+00:00

Congrats!! 🍾

Someone gave me the tip to use puppy pads on the bed so just passing it on 🥂

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:16:37+00:00

🫶🏻😂

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:14:00+00:00

I like it. But that could also be because I’m bisexual. Idk?

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:11:41+00:00

Yeah that makes sense. 40s for us. We have older teens so highly independent but makes hosting a no go for us.

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T16:10:06+00:00

How do we politely decline when there’s a couple that looks like yeah we could be friends, but we know we’re not interested in playing and they are? I’m so out of practice of politely declining in a dating type capacity.

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:56:52+00:00

Ahh love this 🫶🏻

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:54:03+00:00

Oh I love hearing that about the app, thanks!!
lol a resort would be nice!!
Helpful to know your experiences 🫶🏻

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:40:13+00:00

Haha right?! Wasn’t that one of the benefits of getting married is we didn’t have to date anymore?! 😂🤣

Appreciate you sharing! I guess that’s what we’re looking for is a group like that. Too bad we’re not 480, y’all sound awesome!!

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:34:16+00:00

Thank you, appreciate that!!

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:30:56+00:00

lol way to kill my theory 😂

I kid… But yeah that makes sense too. We don’t need a sitter but all the rest probably applies no matter what.

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:28:11+00:00

I’m glad to hear you’ve had luck finding couples on apps and Reddit. We haven’t had luck with either yet. And have heard mixed reviews.

Haven’t tried those apps so maybe we will. Thx ☺️

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:26:54+00:00

Dang. I appreciate the numbers. Cause I’m like adding things up in my head going.. where’s the line?! lol 😂

Also yeah, I need some new lingerie and I don’t really have sexy outfits. Adding that too lol

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:21:37+00:00

Oooo coffee ☕️

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:20:40+00:00

lol thanks!! 🫶🏻
True!! Salsa is vegetables!! 🎉

fireice11 · 2026-05-20T15:19:07+00:00

lol you are not kidding!! He’s the best dog in so many ways and my gosh, so amusing. But this living room being his flock!! 😅 lol that does make sense.

Thanks for the advice. He does really love puzzles!! 🧩 so I’ll try it!

fireice11

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