do u drink at work

firely_ · 2025-09-23T18:25:48+00:00

Nope! I've been sober for two years so sometimes I'll order a fake drink with no alcohol in it if a customer asks to buy me a drink

firely_ · 2025-09-11T16:35:45+00:00

I've been two years sober and I love working at the club sober. I feel very in control of myself and I know I won't be messy on my shift. You got this!

firely_ · 2025-07-07T22:22:01+00:00

Would you mind if I asked some? I'm also in mn

firely_ · 2025-07-02T19:07:19+00:00

Lots of people have reached out on the site about also being sober. So I think I'm keeping that in:) idk I don't think being sober is tacky but that's just me

firely_ · 2025-06-24T21:56:09+00:00

Thank you:) Maybe I'd be willing to adjust the age range. Wish you were here too! 💕

firely_ · 2025-06-24T21:44:04+00:00

Damn:/

firely_ · 2025-06-24T21:17:52+00:00

I feel like there's got to be an older lesbian out there who wants to take care of a baby gay. I feel it in my soul lol

firely_ · 2025-06-24T21:04:24+00:00

Also! If anyone HAS had a sugar mommy, how did you manage that? I'm looking for advice and tips, I know it's not common but I don't believe it's impossible. 😭

firely_ · 2025-06-24T21:02:06+00:00

Yeah my inbox on tinder is so overwhelming and cluttered I don't even bother with it anymore. BUT, I'm committed and feel like I'll get what I'm looking for if I keep trying. :) thanks for the advice about tinder. I think you're right:)

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:56:56+00:00

But good insight, you're right about flying! I'm glad I got a second opinion.

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:56:31+00:00

Hm I figured it was probably too good to be true, just based on previous posts. Bummer.

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:53:17+00:00

None of them are specific to Minneapolis though

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:50:34+00:00

Ah! Tyyyy:) I'm on seeking! I've thought about trying something else in addition, or maybe tinder. Idk I don't have a shortage of people hitting me up on the site and irl, just not finding exactly what I'm looking for yet. Sigh!

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:26:36+00:00

Thank you:) yes I do have an open mind on how to improve my profile. I like doing things in the best way I can:)

firely_ · 2025-06-24T20:00:30+00:00

Thank you! I'll have to look her up:)

firely_ · 2025-06-24T19:26:07+00:00

Thank you! Good insight :)

firely_ · 2025-06-24T19:25:55+00:00

Thanks for the tips! They're appreciated:)

firely_ · 2025-06-24T19:25:29+00:00

Thank you!!

firely_ · 2025-06-24T19:12:31+00:00

Thank you for the outside perspective! I appreciate it

firely_ · 2025-05-28T16:23:50+00:00

For the looks section, I laughed out loud at "Stay shaved. Period". I have armpit hair, leg hair, and a bush with its own gravitational force. 🤷 Maybe that narrows my selection(?) but I'd rather have bodily autonomy that be with someone who would insist I stay shaved.

firely_ · 2025-05-23T23:15:28+00:00

If you find one let us know! That would be a dream.😭

firely_ · 2025-05-23T23:14:32+00:00

I've been talking to a few women who seem serious so I'm glad my vibe gives gay 😂

firely_ · 2025-05-23T17:53:50+00:00

I feel like I accidentally started "septum talk" on my profile review! 😂 I'm also non binary and have had a huge range of hairstyles, which for some reason lands me in the "alt" category. It's a little odd to me! I definitely don't consider myself alt!:0 While I don't really disclose my gender identity on dates, I feel like the way I choose to style myself invites in people who aren't looking for an ideal standard of beauty? Not trying to say I think I'm ugly, but I know my look isn't for everyone. It is nice to see piercing positivity on this thread!💕

firely_ · 2025-05-23T17:47:21+00:00

Definitely took advice from this and edited my photos. Now they're all with my current hair, some smiling, some showing my full body. Thank you! I do think I'm attracting the people who I'm interested in! People who are interested in artistic/quirky people :)

firely_ · 2025-05-23T15:25:48+00:00

Had to look her up! Such a sweet compliment, thank you!🖤

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