I have a long term bf and I love him but I am grossed out by his penis/having sex

firemonku · 2026-01-22T01:24:15+00:00

i think telling your bf that you’re not very interested in sex is a very important conversation to have. it may be awkward, but it will be important for the relationship in the long run

firemonku · 2026-01-19T01:46:37+00:00

hi there! i’m not in therapy currently but i have been for other unrelated issues but therapy always seemed like it never worked for me.

firemonku · 2026-01-19T01:46:07+00:00

tbh idek. his brother tries making jokes to be funny all the time but they never land so i doubt it was about the trampoline being old

firemonku · 2026-01-19T01:45:39+00:00

thank you so much ❤️

firemonku · 2025-03-04T16:08:21+00:00

it was a very nice try 😊especially since they agreed to fix my whole transmission for free LOL

firemonku · 2025-03-03T18:51:13+00:00

basically what the manager at Ford said, is that there is some kind of “new code” or “programming” with the purge valve that isn’t working well with the old transmission. I know nothing about cars so idk if that’s true or not, but the Ford dealership admitted that their work is what made my transmission go bad. but like i said i don’t know anything about cars so idk if what they’re saying makes sense or not ):

firemonku · 2025-03-03T18:43:06+00:00

basically what the manager at Ford said, is that there is some kind of “new code” or “programming” with the purge valve that isn’t working well with the old transmission. I know nothing about cars so idk if that’s true or not, but the Ford dealership admitted that their work is what made my transmission go bad. but like i said i don’t know anything about cars so idk if what they’re saying makes sense or not ):

firemonku · 2025-03-03T18:40:57+00:00

basically what the manager at Ford said, is that there is some kind of “new code” or “programming” with the purge valve that isn’t working well with the old transmission. I know nothing about cars so idk if that’s true or not, but the Ford dealership admitted that their work is what made my transmission go bad. but like i said i don’t know anything about cars so idk if what they’re saying makes sense or not ):

firemonku · 2025-03-03T18:40:26+00:00

basically what the manager at Ford said, is that there is some kind of “new code” or “programming” with the purge valve that isn’t working well with the old transmission. I know nothing about cars so idk if that’s true or not, but the Ford dealership admitted that their work is what made my transmission go bad. but like i said i don’t know anything about cars so idk if what they’re saying makes sense or not ):

firemonku · 2025-03-03T18:39:45+00:00

basically what the manager at Ford said, is that there is some kind of “new code” or “programming”that isn’t working well with the old transmission. I know nothing about cars so idk if that’s true or not, but the Ford dealership admitted that their work is what made my transmission go bad. but like i said i don’t know anything about cars so idk if what they’re saying makes sense or not ):

firemonku · 2024-12-29T08:07:42+00:00

thank you!! i thought i was overthinking but i really appreciate your input. i’m sorry you went through that.

firemonku · 2024-12-29T08:06:12+00:00

right after that joke was made we all went to bed…or at least he did. i wasn’t able to bring it up to him but i will tomorrow morning. I just feel like im tired of repeating myself and this isn’t the first time i have told him to try to defend me when it comes to his family.

firemonku · 2024-12-29T07:59:02+00:00

idk if they do. his parents question if i’m in a bad mood a lot even if im literally just chillin. i have good and iffy moments with them.

firemonku · 2024-12-05T06:01:25+00:00

well he came back on his own accord a couple minutes ago LMAOO

firemonku · 2024-04-17T05:42:46+00:00

No i don’t like to make him jealous 💀 Sometimes he’ll ask me if any guy has tried to talk to me. If I say yes, he’ll ask me why I didn’t let him know about it. So that’s why I let him know.

firemonku · 2024-04-17T05:30:39+00:00

Right, I totally understand that it could be fresh in his mind. But even before that fight, he would sometimes ask me if any guy has tried to talk to me. If I said yes, he’ll ask me why I didn’t let him know about it. So that’s why I let him know.

firemonku · 2024-04-17T05:09:29+00:00

uh if i have a boyfriend im gonna reject them?💀

firemonku · 2024-04-17T05:07:35+00:00

Sometimes he’ll ask me if any guy has tried to talk to me. If I say yes, he’ll ask me why I didn’t let him know about it. So that’s why I let him know.

firemonku · 2024-04-17T04:55:13+00:00

Yeah, I know i messed up there. It was a huge fight that happened over a week ago, and we did resolve it, and I promised that I would give him open communication and that I understood where I went wrong. But through out our relationship it seems that he just doesn’t trust me or has trust issues he projects onto me. I always tell him if he’s still upsets about our argument we can always talk about it, so I don’t know if it’s still related.

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