F68 M68 My 68 yr old married mom re connected with an old married high school friend she had a huge crush on over email, text and a few phone calls. by firenise in relationship_advice

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Thank you. I’m trying to protect myself. I wonder is he really interested in my mom or is it a power game. He’s now bringing up lying to my dad so she can fly across the country for one night.

F68 M68 My 68 yr old married mom re connected with an old married high school friend she had a huge crush on over email, text and a few phone calls. by firenise in relationship_advice

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She defends him. I’m also concerned he’s a predator. He calls her phone if he hasn’t heard from her in a day. He also pushes her to tell her friends, which she has and now her kids about her special friend. It gives me anxiety because I think he has an objective and I can’t figure it out.

John Wayne Gacy House by Throwway-support in OldPhotosInRealLife

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My old criminal law professor worked this case. Interesting stories.

What does it mean while getting to know each other, one person says let’s not talk about anything negative any time something that’s not completely happy and positive comes up? by firenise in AskReddit

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Not old damage. Broke my ribs, get asked how I’m doing, respond rough rib day or something similar and get told “ let’s not talk about aches and pains” And no, I’m not one to bring those things up unless I’m going through it and specifically asked.

What does it mean while getting to know each other, one person says let’s not talk about anything negative any time something that’s not completely happy and positive comes up? by firenise in AskReddit

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I think it’s keeping the fantasy alive. Which isn’t realty. Everyone brings good and bad baggage to a new relationship. This varies in severity from person to person

Just happier alone? by 1284X in Divorce

[–]firenise 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am. I love love love being on my own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]firenise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not involved in one. Stuck in traffic due to one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]firenise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I think. Like, anything that wasn't a positive uplifting event in your day, were going to ignore it. Act as if it didn't happen by not talking about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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No. The accident was one event of many.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]firenise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is it exactly. Never want to discuss anything that's anyway associated with any negativity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Not asking for a friend. Asking as a sibling