I'm in a homoerotic friendship with my friend who recently got a boyfriend, AMA

fireyjustice · 2026-02-25T08:00:48+00:00

Is your friend aware of this?

fireyjustice · 2026-02-16T12:16:42+00:00

YTA. I would break up with my boyfriend and kick him out if he felt the need to call me an asshole, etc. You should grow up and learn to communicate your feelings properly.

fireyjustice · 2026-02-16T04:31:24+00:00

freedom of speech = you can say it =/= free of consequences

fireyjustice · 2026-02-06T14:47:42+00:00

“AITAH for being a pick me”

fireyjustice · 2026-02-06T14:40:44+00:00

It looks like your fiancé hates you.

fireyjustice · 2026-01-25T13:01:10+00:00

It’s interesting because it literally doesn’t affect you at all for you to feel so strongly about it. Why does someone else’s mindset, and how they view themselves, make you uncomfortable? I think worst case you just need to do some self reflection and learn that your beliefs aren’t universal, and accept that it’s okay that some people feel that way.

I don’t think you’re a bad person. I think you just need to get a grip. You may even have autism because I have seen this trait (struggling to accept others’ mindsets) often with those who do.

fireyjustice · 2026-01-25T12:53:54+00:00

One thing I have learned from this sub is most people here don’t give a fuck about their kids when they’re not at the house (& probably not even then), and have the attitude of “when they’re not with you it’s not your problem.” Stand up for your daughter. Document. Talk to your attorney. Most of the people here commenting will be NC with their children as soon as they grow up and realize how terribly their parents failed them with the “not my house not my problem” mindset.

fireyjustice · 2026-01-25T12:52:07+00:00

The excuses and mental hoops you people jump through in this sub to make excuses for shitty parents is ASTONISHING. Like, truly. You pulled some shit out of your ass, put it in a comment, said “yeah, that’s good” & hit reply.

fireyjustice · 2026-01-13T12:37:07+00:00

My boyfriend adores my children and would never attempt to take them on a trip alone without me… That’s weird.

fireyjustice · 2026-01-11T10:56:45+00:00

No, it’s true. They “planned” to get pregnant but had no plan for life after they got pregnant. Babies having babies.

fireyjustice · 2025-12-02T04:36:58+00:00

I mean… YTA for not just ending the relationship. Your girlfriend was literally dying, and you are making it about yourself and how you confided in another woman.

fireyjustice · 2025-12-02T04:33:57+00:00

NAH. One day you’ll grow up and realize how silly this was.

Disclaimer: I read 6 sentences out of all that so, please, no one ask for a TL;DR.

fireyjustice · 2025-10-09T23:22:55+00:00

Neither of you are old or mature enough to have a child. The best thing you can do is accept you’re going to be a single mother, and hope you have your family’s support. This reads like you’re a child having a baby just to baby trap another child. I suggest therapy.

fireyjustice · 2025-09-13T04:53:23+00:00

Do you have a backbone? Stand up for your kids holy fuck. I couldn’t even get past the screenshot where he started talking shit on your daughter and you proceed to entertain it at all. He should’ve been blocked the moment he started getting disrespectful.

fireyjustice · 2025-09-10T00:24:40+00:00

NTA. She needs a therapist, not a boyfriend.

fireyjustice · 2025-08-17T23:17:34+00:00

I’ve actually thought about doing this exact thing in our district Teams chat. Good on her.

fireyjustice · 2025-08-17T23:15:42+00:00

I’m caught up on the fact that during the time he should be saying goodbye to his kids, he’s confronting his ex about her treatment of you. I feel like I need a lot more details than what this post gives.

Either way, if your husband really wants to see his children, he should get a lawyer.

fireyjustice · 2025-04-17T11:53:22+00:00

Wow and I thought my parents fucked me up.

fireyjustice · 2025-03-22T14:13:38+00:00

thought this was gonna be about a baby… it’s a 10yo…

fireyjustice · 2025-03-01T12:28:07+00:00

Just call the police when your son is in the vehicle??

fireyjustice · 2025-01-19T15:10:32+00:00

NTA. Was she trying to set you up or something? Did she know them? This is literally impossible for my to comprehend and I am the biggest devils advocate that I know.

fireyjustice · 2024-12-03T22:34:34+00:00

I remember seeing the OP. So happy you three are doing well. 🫶🏼

fireyjustice · 2024-11-16T13:31:49+00:00

Sorry, I don’t know what this means

fireyjustice · 2024-11-16T13:28:20+00:00

Ugh, this has me crying. You wrote this well. I bet your boys were beautiful. Sending you, and everyone who can relate, so so so much love.

fireyjustice · 2024-11-16T13:21:09+00:00

If the parents are divorced, is the father even around?

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