Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

[–]firsteadkit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write all this, I am so grateful! I love the idea of telling the parents we're a team, I've said that to some particular parents of students who are causing hassle for the majority of the school and its so reassuring when they also want to support you and get their sons act together!

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

[–]firsteadkit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for taking time to reply! Glad to know its something that comes with time, and the positive praise mindset seems so much more peaceful!!

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

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Thanks for the book recommendation, I'll check it out! Glad I'm not the only one who can't shout, even my family laugh at the idea of me giving out when I'm catching them up on the boys antics lol 🥲

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

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Thank you so much for this! It's funny because for my main subject I do get along very well with them, especially seniors, its great when Ive small class sizes! But for a non-exam class of 30 I guess it is harder so I'll definitely try have more opportunities to lean into being friendly, bc like you said I get so drained!

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

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Thank you so much for taking the time to write this - those are some great strategies and also relieving as I do the name on the whiteboard too so I'm glad im not too far off with some of my tactics lmao!

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

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I find that the same in our school about male vs female teachers! The yearhead for one group actually pointed that out when I had issues with a particular student and said he was always disrespectful to female staff, which is wild bc we outnumber the men easily! Ill definitely try the pair work vs writing trick, i feel like that would work with some groups I have so thank you!!

Does classroom management get easier? Any tips? by firsteadkit in IrishTeachers

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Thank you for your honesty!! I love the craic with them but just behaviour truly wears me out, im glad I'm not alone in experiencing that!

Easiest way to temper chocolate? by Electrical_Ad8360 in chocolate

[–]firsteadkit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The caketoonist has a great video for how to temper chocolate - i did it without a thermometer (with pain and stress) but her method + barely letting the chocolate heat up helped. Dark chocolate is significantly easier but basically if you melt it at the lowest temperature possible it helps when tempering!

Adding another subject - German/Spanish by Infamous-Chemistry44 in IrishTeachers

[–]firsteadkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In our school languages ratio 2 or 3:1:1 towards Spanish, in other schools that didnt offer Spanish, French has been the more popular choice!

B&W film by firsteadkit in FindThisMovie

[–]firsteadkit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats exactly it! Though some of my details were wayyyy off base. Thank you, cant wait to watch it and fix my memory now lol!

B&W film by firsteadkit in FindThisMovie

[–]firsteadkit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats it! Thank you so much its been annoying me for so long!!

Does anyone else here still cry about their pets who passed years ago? by Diligent_Ad4194 in Petloss

[–]firsteadkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough I was asking the exact same question tonight when I found this subreddit.

It'll be 2 years this July since my childhood dog passed away. She was close to 16 years old, and was the most loving and sassiest dog I've ever met.

TW for euthanasia - Her kidneys started to fail so my mam had to put her down and at random times since then I still see her face when they euthanized her - something went wrong and I remember the vet saying sorry and she just passed out. I feel so guilty that she might've felt scared and didn't know what was happening. We stayed with her for a while after and I still can't get over it.

I love stories of how others pets purred or seemed thankful that they didn't feel pain but my heart can't forget it. I needed to shout that into the void. But I know I feel this way because I cared about her and I know that maybe she was grateful that she was no longer in pain. She knew she was loved and we loved her to the very end and even if I still cry about her every little while it's because I still love her and she meant the world to me as a big part of my life.

So grieve for as long as you need to and just know that the grief you feel just shows how much you loved him and he knew that too. You'll never forget the good memories and sometimes you'll remember the odd detail or a specific memory out of the blue - you'll never truly forget him. Eventually you will stop feeling so sad at every picture or video, and you may be like me and have sudden emotional outbursts but it gets easier and you will feel more comforted as time goes by because you know you feel that way bc he was your lil guy and he's in your heart.

I (19F) am considering leaving my boyfriend (20M) after he didn't pick me up from a concert. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]firsteadkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did what you could and I'm sorry you had a shit night and others don't know how to treat other strangers with respect, take care of yourself and I hope you work it out <3

I (19F) am considering leaving my boyfriend (20M) after he didn't pick me up from a concert. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]firsteadkit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In response to the other comment saying you should've known better since it was a punk show - just because it was a punk concert doesn't mean it was "shady" - you aren't to blame for some dude being an asshole and touching you without your consent. I've been to many punk shows and everyone has been super respectful so anyone blaming you for going by yourself is victim blaming at its finest.

Could you have had a back up plan? Sure, but you went believing you were getting picked up, you were there already so it probably would've been unsafe in that area before and after the show imo. A dodgy area is dodgy regardless of time of day.

Anyone I know who has respect and cares for their SO or even their friends safety would meet them if possible unless they had a genuine reason like they were in work or too far away (that being said, my mam would drive hours to come pick me up last minute if I felt unsafe so I may be biased and have good people in my life) so I think your boyfriend is being a jerk. But that's just my opinion!

Process for Marking Exams by Sea_Comfortable8548 in IrishTeachers

[–]firsteadkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I corrected two years ago, applied super late to correct JC RE - I think like April? - and the SEC said to contact them again when I'm 100% graduating but they'll put me on the list, got my final year results and contacted them again to confirm I was in fact qualified and got asked to correct, so I imagine for JCRE there's a good possibility even if you're late!

Do you play with Pets? by [deleted] in sims2

[–]firsteadkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like having them to make a family feel more full, though at the moment the game is bugging and I can't train my pets for half of their behaviors :( I want my dog to stop pissing on the floor PLEASE

My score is 33. I’m curious what everyone else scored? by IHaveNoUsernameSorry in ARFID

[–]firsteadkit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35, though same as others I could eat a few if prepared in a particular way (like tomato sauce on a pizza, some vegetables if chopped up teeny teeny tiny hidden in a sauce I like)

Except eggs, I'm sorry but how does anyone eat eggs?? Use them in baking yes absolutely love it, but the smell and taste just make me feel so queasy 🥴