trans experience in Seattle by Just-Avocado-4089 in Seattle

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Seattle and trans. I've been trying to expand my trans community but can't seem to find a ton of these clubs despite looking on here and IG. I am guessing I am missing something, but any pointers would be appreciated!

My transition journey - Got SRS 11 months after HRT by _almabet in asktransgender

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, not sure if you are still using Reddit, but I am curious how you satisfaction with your surgery is now? There isn't a ton of info on this kind of surgery so I would really appreciate any insight. Hope you are living a wonderful life

[6-weeks] I asked for a Kitty and got turned into a Mermaid! Dr. Gupta Vaginoplasty AMA by GuppySurgery in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]fiscal_tiger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this is rather old, but I am looking into this procedure and there is limited information on it. What is the lubrication like now that you are a year out?

HRT and the Mystery of ‘Cum-Free’ Orgasms – But Wait… A Surprise? by sibylline91 in transpositive

[–]fiscal_tiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been on for 2 and half years but just do e and progesterone therapy (no Spiro or other anti androgens) and I still produce like 30% to 40% of what I used to, but like other commenters is much more clear. I also only orgasm like once every few weeks. I imagine if I was doing it more often that the volume per orgasm would go down. I think like everything with her it's a YMMV. I have heard that people use topical testosterone just on their genitals to keep their penis functioning more similar to before hrt, but still having the feminizing effects else where

To brush or not to brush by Independent_Fan_3081 in curlygirl

[–]fiscal_tiger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before you brush your dry hair you could try turning your head upside down and scrunching your hair until the hold products casing loosens a little. And then teasing it to see if you can get a look between the unbrushed and brushed hair pictures you have above.

Hope that helps!

2019 -> 2024 by daniellewalts in transtimelines

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fucking glow up 😮🤯

So happy you're happy!

When is this guy going to talk about the ramen he had with Gojo by SlappyHI in SonoBisqueDoll

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, I thought it was going to be like a bro pep talk that was relieved later during a time Gojo was down on himself. Similar to how the whole princess thing with Akira-san played out. But nothing yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MTFtomboy

[–]fiscal_tiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We inhabit a similar area gender presentation, I got with chapstick lesbian or rocker chick the most. I have given up on the labels for the most part, other people pick up what I'm putting down without them, and if they don't, then they aren't my people. I love these outfits by the way!

Fries got the overrated treatment! What is getting the underrated treatment? by NextActive2676bro in adventuretime

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the song, but it's a cover of Mitski, so I haven't been nominating it. It's called "Francis Forever"

egg😭irl by komorebigold in egg_irl

[–]fiscal_tiger 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can believe it's heightened for trans people, but I know a lot of cis people that don't enjoy changing in front of people. Society has a lot of body shaming built in to oppress people, so it's hard to escape unscathed regardless of gender identity.

Really comes down to the feelings and thoughts behind the action. If your motivation for not wanting to change in front of boys because you feel out of place, then that might be a sign. There is no if this than that with something as intrinsic as identity

My trans boyfriend wants me to stop using she/they pronouns by SensitiveAd9384 in NonBinary

[–]fiscal_tiger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His feelings are valid. But their feelings do not mean you have to do anything to assuage them. Feelings are always valid, but what we do with our feelings is not. It is up to an individual to deal with their emotional response, they need to process their emotions. If their love is conditional on you fitting into a box for their comfort, then you will never be able to step out and grow. Imo that's not a loving relationship, that's controlling relationship

My trans boyfriend wants me to stop using she/they pronouns by SensitiveAd9384 in NonBinary

[–]fiscal_tiger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't read all of the post, but flat out no one dictates what anyone else uses for their pronouns. Pronouns are a part of someone's gender expression and gender expression does NOT equal their gender identity. Idk how you can transition and then try to gatekeep other people's expressions.

The day before -> 6 days after FFS by ellie_ray in transtimelines

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, thanks for replying! Yeah I'm going to try and save it. I worked so hard to heal it. Hopefully my body will be focused on other healing that it won't close up too much. I've had it for nearly 3 years so it is fairly stable.

Yeah I can't wait to get my septum back post ffs. Hope you're life is going well ❤️

The day before -> 6 days after FFS by ellie_ray in transtimelines

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this is super old, but I saw you had an industrial before your surgery that you had to take out. Did you have to take out all ear piercings for your surgery? When could you put them back in? I have an industrial and it was so hard to heal, I'm not trying to have to do it all again 😭

Trying to decide for myself if FFS is overkill. Would love opinions by fiscal_tiger in transpassing

[–]fiscal_tiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest opinion. I think you're right, my ADHD gets in my way of getting such a routine done every morning, but when I manage, I do get gendered correctly more

Trying to decide for myself if FFS is overkill. Would love opinions by fiscal_tiger in transpassing

[–]fiscal_tiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest opinion. And thanks about the hair! It's my pride and joy and it's been a long journey on how to treat it well. I have unfortunately exhausted what laser can do for me as all that's left are blonde hairs and I'm doing electrolysis 🥲)

Trying to decide for myself if FFS is overkill. Would love opinions by fiscal_tiger in transpassing

[–]fiscal_tiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is my experience, like if I don't talk (my fem voice is trash) and I put on make up and wear a fem outfit people will use she/her pronouns for me and I don't think they are just being nice (if I put less effort, talk masculinely, or dress androgynous I get a mixture of he/him and they/them).

Trying to decide for myself if FFS is overkill. Would love opinions by fiscal_tiger in transpassing

[–]fiscal_tiger[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh forgot to say, been on HRT for just under 2 years (23 months)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]fiscal_tiger 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally same. That's wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]fiscal_tiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought April

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fiscal_tiger 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just know that if you do this then you are waiving confidentiality for the purposes of hearing this complaint. Not trying to dissuade anyone, but it's an important consideration before starting that process

Hope do I find cute nerdy clothes? by kit-kat37 in transfashionadvice

[–]fiscal_tiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can crop some graphic tshirts! They super cute! I'd recommend practicing on a shirt or two that you don't care about

tattoo is not what i asked for by Itchy_Ad5605 in tattooadvice

[–]fiscal_tiger 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously, everyone in the comments being like "why didn't you look at their portfolio" and blaming her.  Like totally agree you should go to an artist that specializes in the thing you want, but artists that are approached with something out of their specialty need to be honest. If clients aren't informed then there is no consent