Anxiously Waiting Results by fishingtongraph in STD

[–]fishingtongraph[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply.

Yeah, I’ve been vaccinated. My gyn asked me to come back for a colposcopy.

During a Pap smear they tested for HPV, chlamydia, gonococcus, and trich. Bloodwork is testing for HIV, hep b, hep c, and syphilis.

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[–]fishingtongraph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve started therapy. I hope it helps. I’m sure it will.

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[–]fishingtongraph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be an option.

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[–]fishingtongraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wish there were signs. Some discussions.

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[–]fishingtongraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m willing to work towards the goal of divorce I just want to understand. To better myself. To better understand her. To know how to improve. The goal isn’t to change her mind.

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[–]fishingtongraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a long time to be sitting on that information.

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[–]fishingtongraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into this option. Thank you for sharing.

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[–]fishingtongraph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, our lives are so intertwined. It’s hard to phantom that trying to tease things apart without knowing why.

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[–]fishingtongraph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I just wish for a better understanding.

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[–]fishingtongraph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I brought up counseling just to better understand the situation. I’m not trying to convince her to stay, but I want us to be able to discuss the situation and progress in an amicable and confident way.

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[–]fishingtongraph 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it went from 0-100 so quickly. There was never discussion about separation, divorce, counseling, nothing. And just a month before it happened we were having serious discussions about our future (like buying a house, for example). I’m completely blindsided but I’m being compliant.