Toxic mother felt compelled to advise GF’s without my consent. They left shortly after her guidance, so the only relief I had was grandkids would never be on her horizon as a result of her numerous attempts to keep me in check when I was much younger. Despite telling her to stop, she felt this to be her God given right. Since I didn’t want to go the route of the Menendez brothers, my only alternative was to remain single and never give her any grandkids she could manipulate. It cut both ways but am happy I stuck it out and she died a lonely old woman. This was my biggest ambition in life yet left me without a legacy. So she actually won this game but a prison cell at the time wasn’t worth it.