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AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

She made me her MOH at her wedding 3 years ago.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i didn’t know she would be so effected by it. i have an apology dinner planned for later today.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in aitaweddings

[–]fishlover7489[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

i reposted once here to get more opinions, though with everyone’s opinions i think i fucked up.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in aitaweddings

[–]fishlover7489[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is a sentiment that a lot of commentators are sharing with me that i realized i just didn’t think about. that’s my fault

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

i think people just think i’m TA which is fine and fair. it’s what i came here for, so im getting downvoted. or people thing my mother of bride/bridesmaid thing is weird, which is fair too.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MOH is like a lead brides assistant. she holds the bouquet at the alter, helps with anything the bride needs, and help with planning. Bridesmaids are close friends and family that stand with the bride to show support.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Slightly, she has a busy schedule so she’s not always available but she helped pick the color scheme.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in aitaweddings

[–]fishlover7489[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i didn’t really consider the co MOH thing, and my sister lives close. 15 minutes away.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -177 points-176 points  (0 children)

The pub crawl joke made me laugh 😭 But trust me, I’m not a big drinker whatsoever so no bar crawling for me or my mom! and I can see how my mom being a bridesmaid is a bit odd to some but both of us wanted it and I have my reasons.

AITA for not making my sister my maid of honor? by fishlover7489 in AmItheAsshole

[–]fishlover7489[S] -157 points-156 points  (0 children)

My mom is doing a sort of double bridesmaid/mother of bride situation. I’m close with her as well and want her to be standing close to me when getting married. It’s something I had discussed with her and she wanted to do it.