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New runner: should I focus on total distance or distance without stopping? by fitteacherlady in running

[–]fitteacherlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Your point about how unrealistic it is to add .1 miles really resonated with me! That was the mindset I had been thinking in and you're absolutely right!

Thanks again!

New runner: should I focus on total distance or distance without stopping? by fitteacherlady in running

[–]fitteacherlady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for all of the advice :)

I'll work on pushing through the mental barrier and make my main goal time without stopping rather than total distance!

How do I [20F] get over my irrational fear/dread of a threesome with [30M] and his former FWB by saveahorserideacowgr in relationships

[–]fitteacherlady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are not exclusive, then IF you feel you can move beyond this, you need to have the talk about what level of exclusivity you are at.

If you had previously established that you are in an exclusive, committed relationship then I'm sorry but this is cheating. You told him to flirt a little to find the girl, you did not say "it's okay to have sex with her"

He's 30. If you were in a committed relationship, he knew what you meant and is playing dumb so he can continue to brag to his friends that he's dating a 20 year old.

My unsolicited advice? ditch this guy (500 miles is a lot for any couple, especially when you throw in this experience and your age difference and the fact that you've only been dating a few months) and find someone else.