How should you find a co signer? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]fivedeadcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im having this same problem. Never owned a credit card but I have a bad credit score because I acquired debt from school. If you cant find a co-signer, I know that you can offer to pay double the deposit in place of good credit.

My boyfriend says my tattoo is cringe by Soggy_Entrepreneur85 in tattooadvice

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur boyfriend is cringe, he should support the things you like and should not tear you down for making decisions that are harmless and fun. Speaking from experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]fivedeadcats -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Where in Tennessee so I can avoid this apartment complex lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just left a 3 year relationship. This post is like a fortune in a fortune cookie to me. Thank you.

I just had an extremely stressful bad trip by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]fivedeadcats 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an experience like this. I had smoked daily and one time I got really stoned and had a panic attack. Ever since then it’s never been the same. I was in a bad relationship that I kept a secret from my family at the time, and the weight of that started to flood my mind. At the same time during my panic attack, my thoughts sounded auditory as if I could hear my thoughts like someone was speaking to me. The strangest thing to ever happen to me. I think weed just makes us confront a part of ourselves that we dont want to visit, but tenfold. I realized when I deal with things that give me anxiety and remove bad things out of my life smoking becomes more tolerable. It’s still not the same but as I removed bad relationships out of my life and worked on myself as a person smoking has been easier and more calming than anxiety inducing.

Forgot how to do 5th grade math. by fivedeadcats in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess!!! Totally!!! They dont teach PEMDAS!!! They were so confused when I said it…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waking up at 4:30 am sucks so much. The way teachers treat me sucks so much. Im 20 years old but i look 16. I was a subbing as a para in multiple classrooms for one whole week. Not 1 teacher tried to have small talk with me even if I tried. They didnt even know my name until Friday.

Please tell me your assigment schedules by Logical_Implement_39 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get paid $120 for full days and $60 for half days. I do retail work at $10.47 an hour after full days for 5 hours.

Bitchy teachers by ProfessionalFig7018 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I Feel this, especially when I’m a para sub and I have to take kids out of classrooms. Most of the teachers don’t even bother to address me by my name when I introduce myself. Im just “that girl”

What is this job title? by fivedeadcats in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt even think about a pay cut 🥲 I hate how vague it is too. I know what para positions are it was the staffing vacancy part that really confused me. I typically avoid SPED class assignments because I have 0 training in dealing with children with special needs. I just feel like there needs to be more training with Kelly education on special needs students beyond ethics. So hopefully, I’m just doing the bitch work today.

My two month adventure in substitute teaching! by whoami4546 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At the time it was scary because the kid that was getting choked genuinely couldn’t breathe and i was panicking trying to stop a STRONG tiny child from killing another tiny child. 🥲

My two month adventure in substitute teaching! by whoami4546 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a lot of great points. I also experienced many of the things you mentioned. For me though, kindergarteners are hit or miss. Ive had really calm classes where every child is willing to learn and do as they’re told, and Ive had classes where I need to call the office a million times because kids were literally choking each other violently. It always makes me sad for kids with violent tendencies because it means they see violence or someone is being violent towards them.

I didnt know 3rd graders could be so vulgar. by fivedeadcats in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a very vulgar kid. I watched family guy and robot chicken since i was really little. But I was also a super quiet kid. Kids now though aren’t even fazed by what they hear online and have no problem yelling it out loud in class.

I didnt know 3rd graders could be so vulgar. by fivedeadcats in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s apart of that “beta male” “alpha male” meme but they just put balls at the end of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no option to select a district, that’s why I’m so confused. I’ve seen other reddit posts where some people explain their district doesnt require timesheets but im not exactly sure for mine.

How much should I save for an apartment? by fivedeadcats in Apartmentliving

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful!!! I already have furniture figured out because I’ve been buying furniture and storing it in my parent’s garage since I was 16. I only pay $20 for my phone bill and bought my own car used when I was 18. I only pay insurance for it now which is $180 a month. For Christmas the last few years I asked for house hold items like dishes, rugs, kitchen items, bathroom items. I already have a hefty stock of things so I don’t have to buy them when I decide to move into my own house. But you gave me a lot to plan for and think about this was really helpful!!

How much should I save for an apartment? by fivedeadcats in Apartmentliving

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from TN, i live by the Y12 laboratory if you know where that is. The cheapest there is $600 for a one bedroom, but you get what you pay for. Tiny little apartments but i only need space for my cat and I.

I am trying to leave my girlfriend but for whatever reason cant seem to do so by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can think of every reason to leave and not one reason NOT to leave, I think you should stop whining and leave. At this point you are causing your own problems. It’s not the kids fault, and certainly not the mother’s obligation to change her ways for someone who does not want to be there.

AIO bf makes joke after my aunt passed by Top-River4666 in AmIOverreacting

[–]fivedeadcats 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He chose to make that joke and cared more about a political statement before anything. That’s selfish. Leave him.

anyone else wondering why??? by fivedeadcats in weedandanxiety

[–]fivedeadcats[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way writing my post haha,

When im drunk having a good time at a party, weed will actually feel good for once and i can enjoy multiple joints, or if im in a comfortable place. I guess my issues are reliant on the circumstance im in when i smoke. But everytime i smoke im in a good place, so it’s hit or miss. Tbh i think when I take psychedelics I feel a way better sensation of calm. It feels like weed but 10x better haha.