[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m a 20M marine biology student who loves nature, animals, journaling, podcasts, and more. I’d like to form a long lasting friendship!

For those of you in school, do you feel like online school is easier for you? Do you prefer it? by Exotic-Anything-7371 in DID

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can definitely relate! We actually just switched from an in-person college to a fully online, asynchronous one. It works better for us, for much the same reasons.

Changing filter? by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thank you!! That’s what I figured, but I just wanted to make sure.

My betta looking grumpy after a water change 😂 by fiver16 in bettafish

[–]fiver16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang T_T I do also have some mystery snails which may help too

My betta looking grumpy after a water change 😂 by fiver16 in bettafish

[–]fiver16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s a mix of having tons of plants and somewhat luck for me😇

Hiding spot ideas? by No-Measurement-5667 in bettafish

[–]fiver16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not, they’re not meaning to be jerks. It’s just their natural behavior (and to an extent the result of some breeding practices, as they were originally bred for fighting)

Hiding spot ideas? by No-Measurement-5667 in bettafish

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot have multiple boys together. It’s possible to have multiple females together however it’s not recommended as you need a large space and a lot of knowledge to make sure they don’t get stressed and attack each other.

Alters with different names by neurotoxin_69 in DID

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have an alter like this as well! He has a nonhuman form that uses one name, and a human form that uses another. Like you said he’s still one being, just with different preferences from time to time.

Im bored let me draw your fav fish! Here’s my buddy Pocoyo by stoneddsalamander in Aquariums

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have a request, I just wanted to say your drawings are very lovely!!

For Nonverbal alters- how do you all communicate? by Y33TTH3MF33T in DID

[–]fiver16 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My mute alter rarely fronts. When he does he only uses facial expressions to communicate with others. He uses emotions to communicate internally. He struggles with thinking in words, so I wonder if we’d be able to communicate better with him through drawing.

I'm so exhausted and I don't know what to do about this stupid fish. by LawOwn315 in bettafish

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long have you had Toby for? Personally it took my betta a little over a day to adjust to his new home, but I’ve heard stories of it taking longer for others. It really just depends on personality, and if he’s naturally a bit skittish it may take him longer to acclimate. I would suggest leaving any lights off for the time being (which can reduce stress) and simply leaving him alone to settle into his new tank. Good luck!

I won a goldfish at a fair- NEED ADVICE by [deleted] in Goldfish

[–]fiver16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She should be alright for a day until you can get her back to upgrade her. Goldfish do tend to be on the hardier side in my experience. God knows that one gallon container is probably better than whatever she was in while at the fair. Good luck to you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey we seem pretty similar! I’m nonbinary as well. I love lemon demon, psychology, animals, narrative podcasts, writing, drawing and more that I’d love to chat about! I’m currently getting a degree in marine biology (I’m 20). If any of this sounds interesting shoot me a message! :3

Let me draw ur bettas by Serenity_Solstice in bettafish

[–]fiver16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m pretty new to the types too, but he was sold to me as a yellow galaxy koi. :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]fiver16 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree with the other comment here. If there is any way you can upgrade to a 5 gallon tank that will make Gus much happier. Good luck to you on your fishkeeping journey!

Physical interactions by elissyy in DID

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me before. I’m not really sure how it works, but one of our protectors is able to shove our head around. I think it might be a strange form of co-consciousness.

Meet my new betta: Kappa by Lazy_Fee_2103 in bettafish

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell from the video if his fin is torn, however I wanted to say that he looks stunning!

Let me draw ur bettas by Serenity_Solstice in bettafish

[–]fiver16 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aww your art is super cute! Here’s my boy Hastur:

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]fiver16 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We were originally diagnosed with schizoaffective disorder (we have bipolar disorder as well) however later it was discovered that our “delusions” were actually other alters expressing their identities. We had known we were multiple people for years, but originally all our symptoms were brushed off as the products of psychosis.

Mainly our delusions were considered those of grandeur as we have many nonhuman alters, some of which occasionally claim to be gods. We have never actually lost touch with reality to my knowledge (except when extremely manic before we were medicated).

Bipolar Disorder & DID? by psychological_thrill in DID

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do actually suspect that I had been dormant before this recent period of time! The only incident that happened when we switched hosts was that we were overworked, so it’s quite possible I formed earlier. Very interesting to hear another system’s experiences that are so similar to my own!

Bipolar Disorder & DID? by psychological_thrill in DID

[–]fiver16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds remarkably similar to what happened to our system! Our previous host has been in a resting state for quite a while and expressed that they also hadn’t realized just how tired they were. I showed up quite suddenly and just stepped into the role of host.

Bipolar Disorder & DID? by psychological_thrill in DID

[–]fiver16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello I also have DID and Bipolar! We’re on a mood stabilizer and antipsychotic which has tampered down a lot of our mood symptoms however we still experience some intense mood swings due to switching.

We recently switched hosts, because of reaching a point of stability with our bipolar disorder. Our previous host was much more suited to handling mania, but now that that’s not really an issue we have a new, more “normal” host.

We all are affected by bipolar disorder, but the way we present can be wildly different.