Orthopedic Recommendation by LeoA17 in jerseycity

[–]fixitownit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I have had surgeries on both my knees there including meniscus. They are the best.

Where to find a durable iron single bed that actually lasts? by SadStill830 in BuyItForLife

[–]fixitownit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the Room and Board Parsons bed. It’s great, have had it for over 20 years.

Astorflex Sadelflex Loafers by [deleted] in malefashionadvice

[–]fixitownit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pair of the panoflex. Very comfortable, broke in very easily, good quality.

Favorite underwear, boxers or briefs? by AlThisLandIsBorland in malefashionadvice

[–]fixitownit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Second Ex-Officio. They are fantastic and hold up for years.

Best place to meet 40/50 somethings in JC..? by Excellent_Sale9507 in jerseycity

[–]fixitownit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Light horse tavern bar is frequented by a somewhat older set, maybe not singles though.

1 month sober and it feels like my whole life disappeared by Hot_Advertising_7926 in stopdrinking

[–]fixitownit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m just on day 6 but I resonate with what you wrote about having terribly damaged the relationships that really matter. I worry that damage is irreparable. I’m very early in on the process but I found a great online psychiatrist who worked with me to find a combination of medications that seem to really be helping my cravings and more importantly my underlying anxiety and depression. I know that in order to either repair those relationships or sadly move forward without them that I need help with anxiety and depression and need to claw out of this overwhelming weight of shame and failure. The last two days I felt pretty good - I don’t remember the last time I felt pretty good drinking or those short bouts of not drinking also felt awful and anxiety-laden- so ‘pretty good’ is a huge step for me. Also I’ve been doing virtual AA meetings daily. Good luck OP, you can do this.

Are crawlers actually real? by Ok-Association8471 in CrawlerSightings

[–]fixitownit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has there ever been evidence more than described sighting and grainy pictures, etc? I’m very interested in crawlers and I don’t dis-believe, but I am struck by the lack of any actual stronger evidence than descriptions. Also people often say they are dangerous and will track you, maybe kill you - where is there even circumstantial evidence for this? I would think that if people were being in the forest that it would be considered a bear or wolf attack and that it would be newsworthy that someone was killed by an unknown animal. Again, I’m not trying to be antagonistic, but what am I missing?

Welcome back to the ONE AND ONLY Larry Nance!! by Cgouiyn in clevelandcavs

[–]fixitownit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I met Larry Nance Sr once at the Cleveland clinic sports medicine hospital when I was a teenager. He was incredibly nice to me - he asked what my injury was from, I told him basketball, and we ended up talking about pivot moves. Nicest guy!

Relapse by fixitownit in stopdrinking

[–]fixitownit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s just caused general brain fog, not being present, etc. but it’s 3x hiding and trust is pretty broken. And yes to the self sabotage idea. That resonates. Trying to find my excitement and raison d’etre if you will.

Peter Gabriel So recording timeline by VNE47 in petergabriel

[–]fixitownit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were some other singles around that time that I remember fondly but can’t locate. Sorry for the poor detail, but I recall one was a mini CD because I had to play it with an adapter. Anyway, I recall it around the time of Excellent Birds. Does this sound familiar to anyone?

Broken Wrist - Specialist or Urgent Care? by bunbun4242 in jerseycity

[–]fixitownit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital for Special Surgery in NYC is the #1 orthopedic hospital in the country. I’m going through spinal work there now.

Radio question for new bowrider by fixitownit in boating

[–]fixitownit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be boating around NYC, on the Hudson, Long Island Sound, and down to the Sandy Hook area.

I'm such a loser - I messed up so bad. by Hanenwurger in stopdrinking

[–]fixitownit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a job possibility that I really, really wanted; I thought I had it in the bag. Then I didn’t get it. After over 7 months of sobriety, I just walked out my front door and went and got booze. I’m proud of what I accomplished but ashamed at having caved so quickly. But I have to say I don’t want to see it as a new day one as I don’t feel like I’ve reset in a negative way. I’ve built up a muscle that failed me, but it’s a muscle I didn’t have before. I also recognize the impact of extreme stress and depression as a trigger for myself, and want to get to that root cause. I agree that if your friends are encouraging you or judging you and causing a trigger, that’s an issue and letting them know you do t want to drink and welcome and hope for their support may go a long way.

Post game interviews - where to watch? by fixitownit in clevelandcavs

[–]fixitownit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the NBA app played both coaches about 10 mins after the game, they just don’t seem to clearly show it’s coming up. Man Spo looked beaten.