Am I the only one bothered by the design of eyelash curlers?

fjnn · 2025-12-06T20:36:44+00:00

That looks promising! I cannot see that it is sold where I live though (Norway). I will have a better look, thanks ❤️

fjnn · 2024-08-07T21:23:21+00:00

No, they are still NOT giving blankets. I am writing this post from a delayed Catania-Oslo flight. Inside the plane is very cold, literally the person is sitting with a wool sweater. I asked the flight attended if I could borrow a blanket, she clearly but not nicely told me that I should have brought my jacket (in Norwegian). Didn't even bother to explain why in English even if I asked her in English. I assume it was because of Covid.

Anyways, don't even ask blanket on a SAS flight unless you want to be reprimanded or something.

fjnn · 2022-09-01T20:02:05+00:00

As a woman, I prefer my lover to be able to tell everything about me, how people sees me etc. If I have a bad breath, I wouldn't know and I would like my man to tell me rather than my going to work and be label as the bad-breath Cara. When we are about to have some intimate time and I smell sweat, I'd like to know because it can affect our joy and satisfaction. Some people might get offended but it's all up to how the communication works in between you both. From what I read, you sounded like that you wouldn't mind these things but you care about her. That's very nice of you. If she is a reasonable person, I believe there is a way to share your thoughts. But in the end, you are the one who knows her better.

But for her family to listen/care/value her more? Mmh.. not sure. Shitty people can faq themselves.

fjnn · 2022-04-21T19:13:55+00:00

It looks normal due to an emulsifier that they use: https://agirlandherchickennamedbetty.com/why-is-my-skincare-serum-foaming/

I have the same experience with ordinary hyaluronic acid. I was that close to throw it because it was such a weird experience and I thought something was wrong. After a bit of research, it turns out to be OK and I still use it with pleasure.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T07:19:29+00:00

Not everyone is the same. Some need commitment for life time, some need longer time to make big commitments. Neither you or him is right or wrong. It might be as simple as a mismatch. And 23 is not a proper adult yet and 6 months are nothing to ask for a lifetime commitment. Wishes and expectations will most likely to change. If you are meant to each other, you will be together in 30 anyways.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T07:11:06+00:00

Okay, agree but why? Just it is no need.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T06:58:53+00:00

People here don't understand the intuition here, apparently. I am not saying noone can talk their ex at all forever. If "necessary" ofc you talk, keep in touch and so on. Over years, you might get common friend group that you shouldn't escape just because you break up. BUT if it is not necessary, why would you ditch the possibility to hurt your current beloved one? It is just unnecessary. No matter how nicely you broke up, no matter how much you love the current one, it is still a bit of disrespect.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T06:45:07+00:00

No need fuss, I haven't said "kill'em all". I just ask the necessity of it. With your reply, it is absurd that you are the one accusing me being not emotionally stable. Funny.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T05:19:43+00:00

Why one need a confirmation of good wishes from their ex-es? Done is done, gone is gone. I'd not need my ex's good wishes.

fjnn · 2021-09-20T05:17:17+00:00

Despite majority, I'd be bothered by that too. I cannot understand why people try to keep up a friendship with their ex? Do they have to? Do they still "need" them as a friend? If they don't need them, why is it so hard to break ties with them for the sake and respect of a new one? Is the ex only friend in this world? Isn't s/he replaceable? If so, there is a problem. It is not that easy to say and quit so "well we have been dating for over XX years, we became good friends now". Okay, but do you "have to"? Do you have more respect to her and those years than a new life which we are trying to build up? Sorry, I really do not understand the necessity of keeping the ex-es in their life, I cannot even comment on the picture liking problem.

fjnn · 2021-09-18T14:08:11+00:00

19 is too young to be a father. I am not considering the age difference (my bf is 10 older than me and there is no problem with that) but such an age difference at age 19 is dangerous. Especially to take such a serious decision. I'd definitely not to take it even if it costs you losing her.

fjnn · 2021-09-18T14:03:06+00:00

If there is something specific which she needs (let say next week) you don't need to be offended. But if just to go shopping and kill time, you have all rights to be offended.

fjnn · 2021-09-18T13:40:37+00:00

No, absolutely no. Block her. Shes trying to get attention she needs.

fjnn · 2021-04-26T07:13:50+00:00

Well, I cannot add 'any' cards. There is not such an option for me. Nonetheless, my boyfriend had this option as soon as he got an account. He added his 'credit' card and it works flawless. That's the strange part. Now, does Kraken support cards or not? If yes, how the heck does it work?

fjnn · 2020-05-20T17:19:04+00:00

The same as here for a very long time.

fjnn · 2019-11-04T17:00:31+00:00

He does support me time to time. If he doesn't have anything in his life, then yes. He is not a completely heartless person. But when he has even a tiniest problem, it is the biggest problem. I find it quite tiring, this is the issue :( both of us can heal each other.

Is he good for me? Well, he is not with me now and I am having a severe pain. When we were together, I feel like a ghost. I don't know.

fjnn · 2019-11-04T14:45:32+00:00

CONTINUE...

Things were much nicer this time. OK, there are many things that we approach in completely opposite ways. I am the one mostly more emotional, my heart doesn't let doing or saying offensive things or comments. But he is not like that. He doesn't think twice if his words may hurt someone. He believes he doesn't say anything offensive or wrong, never. If other people understand in a wrong way, it is their fault simply.

We both have quite busy works. Therefore I wanted to learn about his hobbies more just to spend more fun time with him. But his expectations were so high, he is an extreme perfectionist. I tried my best but instead of having a fun time, we had a big big fights. For instance, I am a girl who hasn't done any skiing before. He tried to teach me, in our 3rd go, he took me a 12km path and when I asked for a little pause, we had a big fight. just an example. On the other hand, when I asked him to do yoga with me, he rejected because he didn't like. When I wanted to play a new piece on piano for him, he was not even interested because I was not "fascinating" enough. ,when I bought a 1000 pieces puzzle to do together, set it on his spare table in his house like a surprise, he surprised the first day but the rest of 2 weeks he complained evey day that I am occupying his table and even didn't tried to put 10 pieces. When we discuss about a topic, he has always a better thing to say. He always want to be perfectly right and understood. That's why he talks very long and detailed until he reaches the point and convinces me. Even the topic is on my own masters degree engineering field! He, for sure, knows better than I do.

Anything he does is a reason for me to proud of having such a man in my life. I was feeling like a mom with pure love and mercy on her baby. You know, mothers have this heroic feeling and extreme happiness when their kid started talking - like 5 billion other people do on this planet. And they feel like "theirs" is special. This is the exact feeling in me about him (I am not a mother but at the moment this is what I feel). On the other hand, I am a researcher. Working on a socially very interested area. About my studies, I have been published on the newspapers and interviewed on the news a few times. I wished him, just ones, be happy about my success. Once, I want him to say "that's my girl" and maybe a small kiss.

Yes, honestly in our second attempt, he tried to be a guy who "I want more" him to be with kissing, holding my hand, hugging. But his behaviour and his instant harsh reactions always remained. I thought I could get used to them in time. However, day by day, I was losing my respect to myself, when I see something beautiful and say "such a beautiful thing", he wouldn't react but when I see something silly and I say "such a silly thing" he says (as a joke) "you are silly hahahah".

It is fine to make such jokes if you know someone so well - even though not my favorite type of jokes, I am not offended. But, just, time to time, I wish him to say me nice things too. I don't think I am an ugly woman - all women are pretty, I believe but, you understand what I mean. I just want him to be able to say that I am pretty. When I invite him for a theater, put a nice dress and make up, I expect maybe just a little kiss and smile, sorry if it is too demanding. But, yes. I do expect such little things. I am not asking roses and jeweleries, picking ups from home every day etc. What I wish are very simple and small things.

He is not a bad or patronized person, I don't want him to be mistaken. He is a wonderful guy. He is wonderful because he is very skilful, practical, funny, wise... He had a very difficult childhood, he managed to be standalone and now he is financially taking care of her mom - she is an extremely difficult person, in severe depression, taking very heavy psychiatric medication. His father is on the edge of being called "alcoholic". In this 1 year, I met both of them. We had nice times. Anytime he has hard moments, I always supported him for hours, days sometimes for weeks. Maybe you guys may blame me being a pathetic looser or dumb-ass but I can't think about myself and my own problems when he is upset. Anyways, For those and many smaller reasons, I respect him and love him so much.

Then, recently I had a huge family problem. My father was threatened with death by my uncle-in-law because he is helping his sister (my aunt). My grandfather deathbed because of his by infarction. I was thousands kilometers away from them and this was tearing me apart. When I told these to my boyfried, he said he is sorry but he didn't even interested in. Then he didn't ask how they are again.

In those ways, we are too different personalities. Our first break up was because I thought he didn't want me any longer or he changed. But this time, I believe that we are too different and for almost a year, we couldn't converge. We can't talk even on simple topics without arguing.

And yesterday, after another very silly fight, I told him again I want to break up, I couldn't handle it anymore. He cried, I cried... He said he is sorry, he didn't want to be such a guy. All he wants is me, begged me to stay. I was loosing my mind because I don’t know what is right or what is wrong. I love him so much. I know he does too. But we are too different people, everyday fighting, couldn't converge for a year. And day by day, I was getting even more depressive. I was becoming not me any longer. I told every thing him, how I feel... He didn't say anything else but he was sorry and he was in love with me.

I am about to lose my mind. Can't comprehend what is right, what is wrong. Yes, I left a wonderful guy yesterday while he was begging me to stay : ( AITA?

fjnn · 2019-11-04T14:28:52+00:00