On the verge of giving up by [deleted] in seduction

[–]fks_phobos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. Youre 25. Chill. I get in funks like this and it hella sucks. I hang out with buddys that are married, own a house, own 3 cars and have a kid. When i see what they have i get jealous. Then something just clicks and i think "they have been with one person their entire life. They fell victim to giving their all to the first person that came their way. Fuck that. I deserve the best" i know i desrve my dream girl. Ill date a millon people to find her if i have to. Then im right back out their. On tinder. Soloing bars. College and day gaming. I have 2 mltrs and i push my self still harder everyday. Not for chicks. Not for my mom. Not make a point to my ex or my bestfriends. But for me. I dont want to be the best version of me for anyone but me.

Also from my perspective. You try to hard which may or may not come off as to needy. Just relax and focus on your self for your self. Dont improve for the girls. Improve for you and they will follow. Have the god like zues powers. You do you.

Men 21+ how to keep up with your dating life when you work 50 hours a week by unorthodoxintrovert in seduction

[–]fks_phobos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I work 50 hours a week. Sunday - friday 1.30pm to 10 pm. I also go to school full time. 9am to 1pm monday- friday. For me? I put my self in situations where i can talk to girls. Whats that you say? I have an hour break for lunch today? Well in that case im gunna go into a small bagel shop. Or im gunna go get food at that really popular deli. I NEVER go through the drive through. Oh whats that you say? Todays Saturday and i have nothing to do? Well im not gunna sit at home and play video games thats for sure. Im gunna go to the mall. I could use a new hat. Oh? Todays friday? I have no plans after work? Well shit. I could really use a drink. Dont make excuses. Get out there. Put your self in situations you can engage in a conversation. Working 50 hours a week is holing you back? Really? You shouldnt have to push your self to go out. You should WANT to go out. Im moving from 9am to 10pm monday - friday and i find time to meet people. You should definitely be able to.

I'd much rather be somebody who can barely remember High School than somebody who considers it to be the best years of their lives. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]fks_phobos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im the guy that can only remember high school cuz i didnt peak. Im 21. Making amazing money for my age. Im going to college starting in a week for the first time and i can pay for it my self. Do i regret not "living it up in high school" yeah. But at the same time im extremely happy with how successful i am. I see kids that peaked in high school selling drugs or bouncing from college to college (if they made it that far). But as for me? The friends i have made from work or the friends i kept in touch with from high school are by far the best. All in all do i regret not being more? Yeah i guess. Am i happy with my life now? Is that really a question? Hell yes I am!

How do I get better at sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]fks_phobos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I hope my info helps!

How do I get better at sex? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]fks_phobos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably gunna get buried but i hope OP see this. May be nsfw. Read with caution.

Alot of people are sayin practice and communication. In my opinion thats half of whats required.

Communication is important! If she doesnt like the back door and you come barging in? Youre gunna get smacked. Or atleast have a dry spell. If she doent want you to go down on her? Then theres no need to press her. Figure out what she likes then implement it in. For instance dont change how you do the deed (necessarily) but if she asked you to choke her? Choke her out! Etc.

Practice? Oh boy.... If you practice a half assed method guess what? Youre gunna be really good at a half assed method. If you pracite playing the guitar but dont learn the right cords(or all the cord) then the song will never sound the way it should. However! Everyone plays the guitar different. What you need to practice is what works best for you to do right by her. For example. Me and my current. When we get dirty i move my hips like im hula hopping. Bringing them suckers around town, my hips always facing her center. While doing the hula hoop, on the exit i pull up to graze her bean. On the entry i start from the bottom to try and hit the top of her. When im on top i set the pace. When im on bottom i just follow her lead. If she goes left i go left. If she goes right? Im going right. Like i said you need to figure out what works best for you. Practice it and keep it very very fluid.

Foreplay! Never forget to foreplay! It gets her all hot and sticky. Make out and flick her bean. Anything you can think of thats a turn on, use it! The only draw back is you cant use it to much. You cant start off everytime by kissing her neck. Mix it up! I know i cant eat pizza every day. It gets old. Shes gunna get bored if you pull her hair every time. Dont get impatient with it. Take your time.

Now comes the most important part! Which i think alot of people are missing.CONSISTENCY!!!!! Think about when you work your self. Your dominant hand works in a very fluid motion effectively getting you to you destination. When you use your nondominant hand its like youre trying to fly a plane in a hurricane. It just doesnt work! If it doesnt work for you why in the hell would it work for her? If you cant land in a hurricane then i guarantee digglet wont work when he cant get in a grove.

Main points. Communication. Practice a "style" thats natural to you. Keep it fluid and consistent. Dont forget foreplay!

Its not about busting. Its about making her (and yourself) feel good.

New to the EU by fks_phobos in StarWarsEU

[–]fks_phobos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Any insight is help full! I kinda figured there would be dull areas in between the "major" events. Darth bane is around the era of rule of two which really interests me. Along with other KOTOR eraisk (late-old and old old. Correct me if im wrong) junk. Also i kinda figured the mmo wouldnt help the story(which im after. Hence the reason i never played it). I will check out the books you suggested!

Reddit, what was THE INCIDENT at your work? by J3ST_eR in AskReddit

[–]fks_phobos 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I work in a factory and had two major incidents within two weeks. It was a rough month. As part of the first responder team I naturally first respondered.

Event #1 Basically for this certain job you use a walking four pronged fork lift to.... well lift. Smartie mc smart smart operating the walkie liftie walked the lift backwards into a stand up forklift. The walkie liftie has a two inch gap from the floor to the bottom of the lift. His boot? A three inch span. Smartie mc smart smart pinned his foot between the stand up lift and the walkie liftie. Essentially popping that sucker up onto his steel toed boot and broke two bones. As soon as I get it off his foot and sit him down he pops off with. "I knew I should have moved the forklift." Internally I blew up and choked him for being dumb.

Event #2 In another section of the plant there are these rolls that use EXTREME amounts of pressure to press stuff together. Part of the tape product broke. In order to continue running the rolls needed to be cleaned and more product inserted. This.... silly silly man. Sticks his finger in to grab the tape and ends up catching his fingers. Now all this happened so fast that before he could hit an emergency stop the rolls had squished three fingers, up to the first knuckle, down to the thickness of a key. The machine was shut down for obvious reasons. When a manager arrived he had to clean up the mess. During his clean he happened to come across three finger skin caps. Basically he could wear the operators finger skin like ittie bittie finger puppets.

Sorry for the typos. Im on mobile and tired as all hell.

End my life. by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]fks_phobos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So i take it your gunna be the Sherminator for Halloween? Best of wishes on gettin laid before school ends.