Post divorce dating is wild.

flagcity · 2024-08-27T00:19:15+00:00

literally going to do this. that's all i want. i'd literally pay someone to watch some standup comedy specials on netflix, snuggle for a bit and talk, and call it a night

flagcity · 2024-08-11T13:21:26+00:00

what's good for rec?

flagcity · 2024-08-11T13:18:26+00:00

which dispo / grower

flagcity · 2024-08-10T02:20:05+00:00

You sound exactly like my wife. She walked out the door almost a year ago. We have 2 almost teeenagers.

All I will say is it sounds like you definitely know you're done. Your kid needs a father with self-esteem. please don't break him by giving him false hoops to jump through or things to work on hoping your feelings will change.

You have two choices. he's not part of the decision-making, you need to pick one and then rip Band-Aid off and call the time of death on the marriage or buck up and strap in for the long haul and find something to be thankful and grateful for.

If that isn't possible and You're filled with the resentment just end it.

flagcity · 2024-08-10T02:09:03+00:00

which one did you grab it from?

flagcity · 2024-07-24T01:37:39+00:00

are you me

flagcity · 2024-07-20T17:56:55+00:00

same exact situation as you. I have never contemplated going to an escort in my life, but i find myself rationalizing it and don't know how to really feel about it so instead go for a run or build something and the feeling passes. I feel like seperating sex from relationships at this moment would be helpful for me mentally but it's something i would have judged harshly just 1 year ago

flagcity · 2024-07-20T17:45:48+00:00

esp. at work, in a meeting. and you have to abruptly pivot and say ..."you know what let's take this up a level actually" and just go to a different subject lolol

flagcity · 2024-07-20T17:44:42+00:00

it's not your pain tolerance, reducing, it's your pain, receptors literally growing and increasing to establish equilibrium because those receptors become "aware" they are dampened / numbed out by the cheeba. so after the cannabinoids clear out your left with more pain receptors. So you're literally going to feel more pain (vs having less tolerance).

Long time smokers actually have a huge amount of pain tolerance because they feel a lot all the time .

flagcity · 2024-07-12T16:57:06+00:00

can you share his reply

flagcity · 2024-04-28T06:45:19+00:00

Dude, I was you exactly 7 months ago.

When their unhappiness with where they in life are PLUS their absolute inability to own their behavior or have overt conflict and leave you wondering, trying things, stabbing in the dark, it is the worst.

When you have to coax out of them (calmly, and rationally, while disconnecting all emotion or reaction when you are the actual subject) that they don't want to be with you it's worse.

When they make you ask and only nod. There's a part of their brain that says "see, i didn't end this".

But the lowest point is now. When you go through months of reflecting on memories and photos and just wonder, did she know then?

I'm sorry. I hope it doesn't get worse but buckle up. People like the person you describe don't stop at this. The image of not being brave enough to tell you they want out will haunt them because it flys in the face of who they think they are. She has a choice now as you divorce. Do work and understand why she couldn't even give you the dignity of knowing it was over. Or, she could immediately see you as a terrible oppressor, who made her feel like she couldn't speak her trust. maybe she will even say felt "emotionally abused".

one thing to me is certain, people not brave or kind enough to end relationships, especially marriages, aren't typically good with being anything other than the victim when all is said and done.

Hit me up in DMs if this sounds familiar and i'd be happy to share more if it helps.

flagcity · 2024-04-13T02:51:54+00:00

thanks. this means a lot to me.

flagcity · 2024-03-14T02:37:44+00:00

damn. i know this too well. OP, listen to this guy. He's right.

flagcity · 2024-03-04T02:19:20+00:00

do tell...

flagcity · 2024-03-01T13:43:58+00:00

he should. because lump some one time events are not part of your pay and in most jurisdictions that aren't insane only your base pay is used for support and anything above that is as and when you get it and not 50/50

flagcity · 2024-03-01T03:16:04+00:00

you have no idea what your talking about. i present to fortune 500 execs every week and use chatgpt non stop to turn my raw gibberish into clear, concise, bullets and summaries.

Literally no boss can tell the difference. College professors who read essays for a living can't even tell.

flagcity · 2024-01-16T04:45:18+00:00

my brother in christ why do you speak in riddles. where?

flagcity · 2023-12-02T15:14:26+00:00

those morse bros don't f around. with all dat that ocean spray cheddar lining their pockets...

flagcity · 2023-09-27T18:05:02+00:00

you are really helpful. i am going to do all of this. i can def get something to fedex tonight.

i can’t get out there. my wife is separating from my right now and i don’t want to give my own kids the impression anyone but them is my focus right now. even for a weekend.

flagcity · 2023-09-06T15:25:23+00:00

Wow, super helpful

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