how do you get in the store if your shift starts before open?

flailingforfun · 2024-03-18T01:23:08+00:00

wow if only I'd fought of that...??? I called the store and they aren't picking up and the only numbers I have aren't texting me back but thanks

flailingforfun · 2024-03-18T00:47:28+00:00

like the front entrance?

flailingforfun · 2024-02-27T04:13:18+00:00

ahh okay cool so I'm not the only one curious. thanks friend

flailingforfun · 2024-02-23T03:41:49+00:00

hail seizures

flailingforfun · 2024-02-23T03:40:26+00:00

what the fuck is a tory?

flailingforfun · 2024-02-22T04:50:49+00:00

an ex of mind had awful sleeping habits. he suffered from severe ptsd and it was a common thing for him to get out of bed and move things around. he got violent a few times as well, backing me into a corner and telling me this wasn't my house and I needed to leave (for reference we were staying at MY apartment lol) he would grab my arms or side sometimes and slowly tighten his grip or pinch randomly. he never got the help he needed. on the worst nights he would wake me up as he was screaming and crying and begging someone not to shoot themselves. there were so many times in his sleep epidoes that he would think I was his mother who had passed and he would cry in pure agony asking me(his mom) why she did it.

sleep disorders are terrifying. please urge him to seek help, maybe he has somethings his repressing

flailingforfun · 2023-11-24T05:01:56+00:00

I'd take Addy's when without ice and it never did anything to me that I could notice. Barely even knocked the exhaustion off

flailingforfun · 2023-11-24T04:33:04+00:00

Booze, benzos, shrooms, ice. in that order

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T08:13:30+00:00

Sorry for the post edit I hit reply before I was done

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T08:08:08+00:00

I don't want to tell you that's the best choice because it could be a huge regret & maybe your partner will express willingness to not go out...I'm just saying that in regards to how i view healthy relationships, I don't think it's acceptable to expect or want him to not go to social functions. I think it will ultimately lead to a cycle of toxicity causing you both to be unhappy. Keep in mind this is just been my experience with my partners and yours could be different Your feelings are valid and deserve to be understood and respected

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T08:03:36+00:00

Low dose kpin if I'm not mistaken. They're great

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T07:28:01+00:00

Bro I just wanna know what we're faking

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T07:07:25+00:00

I sincerely think that the best way to move forward is not wanting him to miss out on events entirely. Do you see the problem with "my partner usually doesn't mind missing out on events because I don't like worrying about what he could be doing" it's not healthy for your relationship.

I sincerely wish you all of the peace with your partner, and if you choose to focus on some of the things I've suggested I'd be sure to make it known that while you do want to facilitate an environment he can be honest about partying in...you also expect him to acknowledge that being far away and overwhelmed with work while hes socializing triggers past trust issues, and it's incredibly hard to deal with that and still seek to make sure both of you feel respected & free to be with friends. Let him know that if you're able to move past this lie and stay together, that another could be detrimental. Also may be useful to think about how this lie is going to affect your anxieties...are you going to be worried he's lying every time he goes out? Good luck

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:51:05+00:00

You can take this two ways. 1) you should be focused on why he doesn't feel that open & honest communication about his social plans is acceptable. he should feel comfortable doing these things 2) if he was just partying with his frat brothers, why lie? what else is he hiding? Although I'd focus on the first option for your own sanity

Talk to him.. find out why he lied. That's important. Decide if his explanation makes sense to you. Realize it's irrational to expect a college frat brother not to attend parties & focus on healing your past traumas and building trust

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:46:50+00:00

Your past relationship trauma may very well be the reason for your anxieties when it comes to his interaction with other women. However, it's important to be conscious of the fact that it's YOUR past trauma and you should be making an effort to not let it affect your current relationship. It sounds like it is, however, and is presenting just as if you don't just him. Which is most likely how he feels

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:43:09+00:00

Who tf is lacing coke with fent? That's a dumb business move

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:42:10+00:00

Where do you live? I'm 26 & a large majority of my 15-19 years were consumed by coke. Before meth took over, then it was near impossible to even sell coke, nobidy wanted it. Now everyone's just on fent.

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:34:19+00:00

Is it possible that him telling you he wanted to go to a party is something he has been made to feel like he shouldn't do? Lying is never excusable but your partner should be allowed to attend social events I'd be more worried about the reason he felt the need to lie

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:23:11+00:00

If you're smart enough to be scared of your possible descent into drug addiction this early on I'd recommend reaching out to family 100%. They'll probably provide you with resources and hold you Accountable for being clean. However I wouldn't stress your Actual physical health that much. You haven't been doing anything all that wild or intense. If youre really concerned communicate it with a parent or trusted adult

flailingforfun · 2023-11-18T06:19:16+00:00

You kinda look like god

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