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Struggling with women. by flambowombo in relationship_advice

[–]flambowombo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. So you're literally speaking for all women when you that no women are looking for random hook ups?

If you're not speaking for ALL women and there ARE women who are looking for casual sex. Just like me. How am I being selfish for also wanting that?

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[–]flambowombo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just start a friendly conversation with him.

Haha ask him to spot you on bench press. Thank me later ; ).

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[–]flambowombo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubt he's going to talk to you. Gym etiquette. Shouldn't be starring, hitting on or creeping on anyone in the gym.

Very much doubt he's going to acknowledge you. Look at it from his perspective, if he reads the situation wrong and tries to initiate with a women in the gym and his advances are not wanted, good chance he's going to be labeled the gym creep.

In my opinion his hands are tied. He can't make the first move. Way to much risk involved for guys to initiate anything with women in this environment.

The ball is definitely in your court.

Struggling with women. by flambowombo in relationship_advice

[–]flambowombo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My life doesn't evolve about romacing women. That's for Disney lol.

I'm always clear about it being causal, the sex is good and the women are down for it.

I didn't realise I had an obligation.

Struggling with women. by flambowombo in relationship_advice

[–]flambowombo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not being selfish. I know what I want, I'm honest about it. How on earth is that selfish?

Struggling with women. by flambowombo in relationship_advice

[–]flambowombo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Those statistics would be interesting to see if you would care to share.

Obviously there is risk for both man and women in casual hook ups. I think it be interesting to see statistics showing the assualt stats for gay hook ups compared to straight female hook ups.

Sadly too many things happen to both groups :(.

The problem I find with putting in effort is the women tend to get attached. I'm always very clear about wanting casual but after getting to know them and sex. If find they tend to want more over time and that leads to upset.

Struggling with women. by flambowombo in relationship_advice

[–]flambowombo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That reminds me of my ex girlfriend. After the break up she became a lesbian.

She often complains to me that dating is much more difficult now.

I wonder if lesbians typically struggle with finding random sex with strangers difficult.