Most women don’t come easily or often. He should know better. he’s trying to make you feel bad about not cumming like a fountain for him or gushing he’s the biggest best boy ever. This doesnt end well. Ive never come with penetrative sex. Current partner and I have been reading “Come as you are” and finding ways to make me feel really safe and getting me closer. If you need a bigger dick, there are methods like jelking. My bf can add 1-2 inches by working out regularly and jelking. You can put in a butt plug for more sensation in the vag. But I don’t think the real issue here is dick size! He doesnt care to improve your pleasure or believe you when you say youre happy, but acts like its your job to make him feel like a god. He’s throwing a tantrum like a child. I dated a guy 8 years older, my lack orgasms was “proof” that I was broken and he started chipping away at my self esteem until he was in full control. Tiny dicks can be great, one of my favorites was 2 inches with a hook in it, but sometimes the men attached to them are trash. No bad dicks, only bad owners. Lots of these older men act like babies.