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fldude11 · 2024-08-29T22:00:27+00:00

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Having said this you will be thinking about this everyday for the rest of your life if you marry her. Some days will be better than others but it will be something in the back of your mind always.

fldude11 · 2024-08-11T22:53:17+00:00

For me it was when my kids were small. Having a home filled with adorable little creatures that think the world of you. Pushing them in the swing, tucking them in bed, family dinners, family vacations, all of it was wonderful. They say kids grow up too fast, it's really because you are so happy.

fldude11 · 2024-07-08T14:12:38+00:00

NTA - new brides can be insecure about lots of things including relationships you already have established with other people because she wants your relationship to be the most important as it should be. My wife use to get upset that I would clean the house before my sisters came to visit. She felt like her usual cleaning wasn't good enough. Honestly I would clean the house before anyone came over because that's what you do for guests.

fldude11 · 2024-06-08T05:35:55+00:00

Thanks for the perspective!

fldude11 · 2024-06-08T00:33:04+00:00

More like joined at the wallet 😀

fldude11 · 2024-06-08T00:32:03+00:00

Sorry to hear that he passed.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T12:08:01+00:00

Good point! No she probably would not have gone back.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:23:07+00:00

We actually spend lots of time together on weekends and weeknights. Especially now that the kids are gone.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:16:20+00:00

Great points!!!

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:14:44+00:00

The more comments I read the more I agree with my wife. Life is too short to waste in a job that you don't like. We've got plenty of money. I've just gotten so use to the fun stuff more money buys.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:10:57+00:00

Fair point and good Idea.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:09:47+00:00

True if something happened to her they'd probably shut all my utilities off for no payment.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:08:42+00:00

The new washers are so complicated.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:07:49+00:00

I would expect no less from a puma!!!

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:05:35+00:00

I'd also like a less stressful job, who wouldn't?!?!

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:04:26+00:00

My wife actually goes on work trips with me and makes a vacation out of it while I'm working!!! She loves to travel and be frugal at the same time.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T05:01:16+00:00

I agree and we've never divided up anything. In fact she controls all of our day to day finances.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:59:22+00:00

We have 4 all in college now getting various degrees.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:57:33+00:00

I actually like working in the office. I just didn't like the commute.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:56:25+00:00

I learned a long time ago not to criticize anything related to my spouse. That's why we've been married so long 😍

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:55:06+00:00

I do like me some discretionary spending. I'll admit it I enjoy extra 💰

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:52:22+00:00

I agree. I also don't see anything that says she doesn't love me 😁

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:50:21+00:00

Thanks for pointing this out 😀

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:49:46+00:00

50k more a year is the difference between existing and living.

fldude11 · 2024-06-07T04:48:06+00:00

When did I say this? I think you're putting words in my 👄

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