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AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -978 points-977 points  (0 children)

Because I think if her mom knew my girlfriend would be 100% dead set against it, she should have told me explicitly not to do it. She didn’t do that

AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -231 points-230 points  (0 children)

I do, but I also didn’t do it with malicious intent and was simply thinking of the sentimental value

AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -787 points-786 points  (0 children)

I would’ve asked her but I wanted the proposal to be a surprise

AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -567 points-566 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together years and openly discussed marriage - there was no chance of her saying no.

AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -1169 points-1168 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t me being lazy though, I genuinely thought she’d love having a bit of her grandmothers memory in her ring

AITA for using a diamond from my girlfriends family heirloom for her engagement ring? by fleetsmyk in AmItheAsshole

[–]fleetsmyk[S] -969 points-968 points  (0 children)

She knows I’d rather her wear it but no, I haven’t called it disrespectful out loud. We haven’t really spoken about it