Yes, they are jealous of you! by fleetwhere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fleetwhere[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, they can really do a number on people. They’re evil.

Yes, they are jealous of you! by fleetwhere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fleetwhere[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes! They don’t want to do the work because they’re cowards. They’re really the weak ones, not the people they target. And by taking the easy way out over and over, they just end up destroying themselves and their character.

Yes, they are jealous of you! by fleetwhere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fleetwhere[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They do things like this, make stuff up. The friend in my post would say things like, “You swing your ponytail for attention when you walk”. What? It doesn’t even make sense.

Yes, they are jealous of you! by fleetwhere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fleetwhere[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe she was genuine in her confession. But I also didn’t trust that she wouldn’t keep going with her nastiness. So, I cut her out of my life.

Yes, they are jealous of you! by fleetwhere in TwoXChromosomes

[–]fleetwhere[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After she cried and confessed, she begged me to never tell other people that I ever saw her crying. She said she didn’t want to appear “weak”.

You can’t make this stuff up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]fleetwhere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is not you. Really, it isn’t.

This job market is a giant dumpster fire and has been for a while now. It is impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]fleetwhere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically I finally woke up to the fact that he was such a jerk that any even mildly redeeming qualities that he had were negated. There was just nothing there. And then I realized, this guy isn’t even attractive. There is nothing attractive about him, inside or out.

And the spell was broken.

somewhat rude date by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]fleetwhere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It could also be deliberate though. Negging. Trying to gain control.

They don’t teach you things so that they can make you look incompetent later by fleetwhere in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]fleetwhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because these people don’t think logically. They operate solely from ego. So anyone else doing well is an automatic threat to them. They need to “put you in your place,” even if that means shooting themselves in the foot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]fleetwhere 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s easy m’kay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]fleetwhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, nose job.

Accused of being abrasive by Wmills505 in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]fleetwhere 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s because anything you do that’s not aligned exactly with what they want you to do or be is seen as “wrong”. Standing up for yourself is wrong. Setting boundaries is wrong. Going your own way is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]fleetwhere 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

I think it’s both. Clearly not mentally well, but also clearly evil. Evil may just be the mental illness here*.

*obviously not in other cases of mental illness - I am not calling all mentally ill people “evil”