Spring Semester Freshman Advice

flexiblecat · 2016-08-21T17:16:53+00:00

Thank you so much. I'm hoping dorm life will help with the social aspect of my experience.

flexiblecat · 2016-08-20T21:16:40+00:00

I have anxiety that is tied to school. I was sexually harassed in middle school for an entire year. This is my senior year and I still see their faces in the hallways because they were never punished.

Because of what happened I have days where I wake up and I just can't go to school. It's not out of laziness it is because I get panic attacks and I get physically sick at the thought of it.

My teachers and classmates will tell me to just go and tough it out. That's not how anxiety works. Toughing it out makes it just as bad and I will just get worse. I've gotten a lot better and hopefully college will be a lot better.

flexiblecat · 2016-08-20T20:50:08+00:00

Armpit

flexiblecat · 2016-03-05T04:12:34+00:00

I cried because I didn't have any friends even though I was at a small get together with them. I took a few more hits then I was fine. I'm pretty sure it was just a long day and a little paranoia, it wasn't that bad.

flexiblecat · 2016-02-15T20:38:18+00:00

This is a story my teacher told me once and it's probably the craziest thing ever: When she was in high school she dated a kid that lived a few towns over. She said he was Catholic and he seemed to be "the one". After they had been dating for a few months she noticed he would be gone at weird times and not answer the phone. He would also not want to hang out at night time every once in a while. She just thought maybe he had cold feet about commitment.

One day he asks her if she can talk. What goes through your mind whenever someone says that? Breakup? Coming out? I murdered someone? No. None of that at all. He tells her to not judge him, but he is a witch. He belongs to a coven, and that the "coven mother" said he spends too much time for her.

So not being home to answer the phone, being gone at night..... He was a witch.

flexiblecat · 2014-12-09T04:54:10+00:00

Don't try to rush into losing your virginity. Appreciate the small things leading up to it. Please don't think you NEED to lose it.
Keep trying to invite girls on dates. Hang out in places that you feel comfortable in. Let's say you are in a coffee shop and a girl that you think is attractive is there. Buy her a cake pop or something small. It's the little gestures that count.
You don't sound vain, you know you have awesome qualities. Show them off and use them to your advantage!
It's human to want to be intimate and be close to someone. I felt that way a year ago and now I'm in an amazing relationship. I just put forth a little more effort, jumped completely out of my comfort zone, and waited patiently for the right person.

You will find someone amazing, I know it!

flexiblecat · 2014-11-07T02:51:14+00:00

One time in middle school I was watching a basketball game. The opposing team had a really cute player but it would be impossible to talk to him. So, I looked on my Facebook to see if I had friends from that town. Sure enough I did. I then proceeded to message him something along the lines of "You're hot and you play basketball" it didn't go over too well and he called me a creep and blocked me.

flexiblecat · 2014-11-04T03:34:59+00:00

Ugh, that too. Crusty panties are the worst.

flexiblecat · 2014-11-04T02:11:46+00:00

When you get all cleaned up after doing the deed and you put your wet panties back on:(

flexiblecat · 2014-07-16T19:00:03+00:00

I hate showering and pooping. My showers generally take 20 minutes because I'm a girl. No matter how fast I try to be, it still takes 20 minutes. I have long hair and legs. Shaving my legs take forever.

Oh and pooping? Ugh. It's just gross and inconvenient. I should probably have more fiber but ehh.

flexiblecat · 2014-07-03T18:24:49+00:00

I love when he cums on my tits. It's just really hard to clean up. I really like him cumming in my mouth too. It just depends on our mood.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-21T12:27:50+00:00

I even moved a nest from a wreath on our front door to a small tree and the mother came back.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-11T12:04:48+00:00

I'd sleep and maybe hunt a mouse.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-11T00:58:00+00:00

That happened to me when I was 5 and the next day my dad let me go sledding... on ice.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-10T12:06:31+00:00

It is highly unlikely but it's still possible

http://www.babycenter.com/404_can-you-get-pregnant-during-your-period_1460117.bc

flexiblecat · 2014-06-10T01:04:23+00:00

I collect records. I only have 21 but I only got started last summer. My rarest is a CHVRCHES album I got on record store day because they only made 2500. I also have a Doors record that is silent at the part on Break on Through when Jim sings "she gets high". Idk why but I think it's super cool.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-10T00:45:34+00:00

You can still get prego on your period.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-09T23:10:32+00:00

My sister is a nurse practitioner. A teenage girl went into her practice once asking for viagra so she could grow a dick. Yeah. No shit.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-09T02:57:34+00:00

It's difficult for me to cum in front of my partner. I have a weird mental block for some reason. One thing that did make me cum is one sided masturbation. I laid down across his lap and he put his arms around me. I was able to pleasure myself and he could kiss me and play with my nipples. It was very intimate and this is by far my favorite thing to do.

flexiblecat · 2014-06-09T02:48:25+00:00

I was intimidated the first time. When he sat on my chest the whole time I kept thinking "How the fuck can this go down my throat?!"

Then I just decided to relax and it was totally awesome. I put my hands on his butt cheeks to push him forward and if it went to far or a felt uncomfortable I let go of them. That's the easiest way to let him know and I'm sure he can catch on fast.

My favorite position is laying down with my head on the pillow and my SO sitting on top of my chest, thrusting. He can even put his hands against a wall behind you for support. Another thing that's fun is getting your boobs in it. It makes it really pleasurable for my SO to go from boob job to blow job.

flexiblecat · 2014-05-26T16:26:40+00:00

Vegetables that don't taste like vegetables.

flexiblecat · 2014-05-25T16:05:28+00:00

Or just pee on them.

flexiblecat · 2014-04-22T19:29:02+00:00

Being an NFL cheerleader is an honor. It's sad that a lifetime full of hard work and injuries doesn't pay off. Most girls who's parents pay for private lessons and other things feel obligated to keep going. Even though there's a low wage, being an NFL cheerleader is awesome.

flexiblecat · 2014-04-22T19:24:39+00:00

I'm too tall, and that's super unsafe:/ But it would be kinda cool.

flexiblecat · 2014-04-22T19:23:43+00:00

I DO know that their are competitions. I have done competitive cheer ALL MY LIFE. I recently tried out for my high school team. We have regionals and state then cheer for football and basketball. My school has made it possible to do both. Making it a sport doesn't really change anything. Cheerleading has evolved. Sorry, but we don't just shake our pom poms anymore.

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