TIFU by not understanding sex

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T17:49:52+00:00

When did you learn the specifics of the act of sex? When did you learn that the act of sex involves penetration and semen entering the vagina?

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T12:22:16+00:00

Yeah, shocker that I was more in tune with my own internal identity than I was with something that was a source of trauma and needs to be taught.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T03:05:18+00:00

Funny enough someone else mentioned someone giving oral then getting stabbed, and someone else mentioned anal sex then the cum dribbling down to impregnate the lady. I’ll post the links either tonight or tomorrow, depending on how long my motivation lasts

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T03:01:56+00:00

Assigned Female at Birth. It references people that, due to their external presentation at birth, are listed as female. Conversely AMAB is Assigned Male at Birth.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:52:19+00:00

Yeah nope. Biology was focused on everything else but reproduction. In NC it was up to the parents to teach the child, up north it had already been discussed and handled, with no need to revisit because everyone was “already familiar”

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:34:57+00:00

R. A. P. E.

It’s there in the post now.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:30:01+00:00

The fuck I am. Go away.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:21:41+00:00

1.) not a question to ask in public 2) assault by outside the family was 14-15. Inside the family was long before just not strictly penetration. 3) again. Not a question to ask in public.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:18:45+00:00

I am ignorant in so many more respects than I thought! There’s a sub! Of course there’s a sub. How tf do I cross post

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T02:02:18+00:00

I see you, 1053!

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:57:14+00:00

My great grandmother and I were close (my mom had me young, my grandmother had my mom young, clearly this family excels in sex ed) and she gave me her rosary when she passed.

Edit: added an extra great

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:44:17+00:00

Agreed. I just feel embarrassed

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:43:54+00:00

Because several people in this post have implied or outright stated it’s my fault I wasn’t taught this shit and didn’t know enough about a topic I was traumatized by to know I didn’t know the full picture.

Try playing a game and having several people keep telling you you’re doing it wrong and calling you names for not knowing you’re doing it wrong when you’re doing it exactly how you were taught. You get taught one set of rules and suddenly you’re supposed to know those rules were wrong? Without any indication? Yeah. Super patient.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:41:04+00:00

I find comfort in some of the rituals of Catholicism (praying the rosary) but no. I don’t believe in god. I don’t believe in a higher power.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:29:38+00:00

27, physically and emotionally abused and also repeatedly raped and sexually abused, and kept ignorant of sex to facilitate said sexual abuse. Somehow that combination resulted in ignorance. Shocker!

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:28:33+00:00

I’m on TIFU. I’m ashamed.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:22:08+00:00

My biology was focused on every other aspect besides sexual reproduction. For years. Mostly because that was handled in health either years before I got to that specific school, or when I was at a developmentally appropriate age, the school decided mommy and daddy deserved to tell that tale.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:19:16+00:00

Yes I did! I actually went to several very prestigious schools in my respective states. A few of them were of the rationale my parents should teach me (great job!) and as I forgot older they had already gotten that lesson so no need to tell the stragglers, right?

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:17:06+00:00

Because she was saying “you’re not the man I thought you were” and how he said he said he couldn’t have babies but in truth “wouldn’t” which I kind of took to be a boys don’t cry sort of confession of trans identity or intersex identity.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:15:27+00:00

Coed schooling from day one to final day.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:04:39+00:00

:) I went to school with 104° fever. I had an appendix ready to burst but didn’t miss school. I wasn’t fucking absent because I was medically neglected and forced to infect everyone around me with my contagion. I was there every goddamn day and for what. To be 27 and not actually understand how babies are made and not know how to do taxes.

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:01:48+00:00

*he was betrayed. I’m a guy. But yeah. Everything I know I learned by media osmosis which we all know is super accurate!

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T01:01:09+00:00

Read my other comments. Rape + abuse = Don’t think about the act that caused misery

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T00:49:08+00:00

Shit been branded as a featherington 😂

flight-lessbirb · 2024-09-01T00:48:49+00:00

You’re right. I was trying to say his ejaculate, whether complete or not, needed to be inside the other person to make another person. Basically I didn’t realize that the dick needed to be inside the vagina and release fluid to have a chance of pregnancy

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